Month: March 2017

30 Days of submission: Day 11

Do you include service as a part of your expectations of your submission?  Yes, I find it difficult to picture a lifestyle D/s relationship without it. How do you define service?  I've never tried to define it directly.  What I write next may be inadequate but I will do my best. I would define service … Continue reading 30 Days of submission: Day 11

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30 Days of submission: Day 10

Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? It's so easy to write in-depth responses to vague questions. Oops, I meant sarcastic responses. It has.  Bondage, discipline, and D/s occur regularly. How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission … Continue reading 30 Days of submission: Day 10

30 Days of Kink: Day 10

What are your hard limits? A lot of these are standard fare common sense but I have to say my current list is tiny compared to what it was when I entered the lifestyle. No animals, no children, nothing illegal. No permanent physical damage. Nothing life ruining that would prevent things in the future like … Continue reading 30 Days of Kink: Day 10

Rules as a Form of Communication

I received some comments on my WordPress posting of submission Day 9 and in the exchange I realized that I said something that was a new thought to me.  It's not really a ground-breaking epiphany or anything but I wanted to put it out there as I haven't really seen it portrayed this way either. … Continue reading Rules as a Form of Communication

30 Days of submission: Day 9

Do you accept and/or expect structure, rules and limits as a part of your submission?  Contextually speaking, "limits" seems like limits on behavior and not "hard or soft limits" so I will answer it from what makes more sense. I accept and thrive under structure, rules, and limits.  The more clear they are, the better … Continue reading 30 Days of submission: Day 9