Month: March 2017

46. 30 Days of submission: Day 11

Do you include service as a part of your expectations of your submission?  Yes, I find it difficult to picture a lifestyle D/s relationship without it. How do you define service?  I've never tried to define it directly.  What I write next may be inadequate but I will do my best. I would define service … Continue reading 46. 30 Days of submission: Day 11

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45. 30 Days of Kink: Day 11

What are your views on the ethics of kink? Wow, this is an interesting one.  I've never actually thought about this as a topic directly before. I'm of a split mind on this topic, mostly because I think that there are a lot of people who are capable of getting in over their heads by … Continue reading 45. 30 Days of Kink: Day 11

44. 30 Days of submission: Day 10

Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your submissive relationships? It's so easy to write in-depth responses to vague questions. Oops, I meant sarcastic responses. It has.  Bondage, discipline, and D/s occur regularly. How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your submission, peripheral or non-existent (other than the submission … Continue reading 44. 30 Days of submission: Day 10

43. 30 Days of Kink: Day 10

What are your hard limits? A lot of these are standard fare common sense but I have to say my current list is tiny compared to what it was when I entered the lifestyle. No animals, no children, nothing illegal. No permanent physical damage. Nothing life ruining that would prevent things in the future like … Continue reading 43. 30 Days of Kink: Day 10

42. Rules as a Form of Communication

I received some comments on my WordPress posting of submission Day 9 and in the exchange I realized that I said something that was a new thought to me.  It's not really a ground-breaking epiphany or anything but I wanted to put it out there as I haven't really seen it portrayed this way either. … Continue reading 42. Rules as a Form of Communication

41. 30 Days of submission: Day 9

Do you accept and/or expect structure, rules and limits as a part of your submission?  Contextually speaking, "limits" seems like limits on behavior and not "hard or soft limits" so I will answer it from what makes more sense. I accept and thrive under structure, rules, and limits.  The more clear they are, the better … Continue reading 41. 30 Days of submission: Day 9

39. 30 Days of submission: Day 8

Is spanking or corporal punishment a part of your submission? Why or why not? Yes.  It has taken upon various roles and functions within my relationships. Behavioral correction. Regular maintenance to remind me of my place. Depression maintenance.  It brings me to a better mind state. Philosophical reasons.  If hitting me brings her pleasure and … Continue reading 39. 30 Days of submission: Day 8

37. 30 Days of submission: Day 7

Do you accept and/or expect discipline or punishments as a part of your submission?  Yes. How do you feel about it? I don't care for pain but I accept it as a teaching tool.  It has purpose on multiple fronts. I want to be perfect for her and hope that she believes in me enough … Continue reading 37. 30 Days of submission: Day 7