“Dominant, submissive or switch? ”
“List the parts of BDSM that get your juices flowing, what interests you the most? Basically define your kinky nature.”
Oh, such an open ended question. I fear if I answered all of it that it would probably be around 10,000 words and probably answer the next 29 days worth as well. I’ll try to go at this in a concise way as it pertains to the question.
D/s and power exchange are definitely my strongest draw. They bring me into a place that feels natural, peaceful, and happy. It is at these times that I feel like I am the best version of myself and I’m free to love to the extent that I want to.
Bondage has been a strong interest of mine for a very long time. I like to feel contained… kept… secured… and under her control. I prefer things that lock. Gags, blindfolds, and earplugs also do it for me in addition to restraints. If cages classify as bondage, they belong here too.
The other items that pull me in are mostly in regards to D/s and how they affect my subspace as I don’t really enjoy them on their own merit… but when they interact with dynamics they become something I crave on some level.
-Tease and Denial.