How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
Does naked count as dressing for kink?
To be honest, I don’t dress any differently unless it is something that is requested of me. As much as I can appreciate fetish attire (and I find a lot of it sexy), my history within underground and independent music scenes gives me a bit of a skepticism about “scenester” looks. When certain things become fashionable the original spirit and message is often lost in favor of appearances and the original purists get lost in a sea of Hot Topic clones.
When requested to dress a certain way it is usually naked except for collar and wrist/ankle cuffs or in a serving “uniform,” which generally involves some horribly humiliating awful forced fem outfit with lots of fur. The significance to me is that this is how she wants me and I do not want to disappoint… even if it leaves me blushing and wanting to cry.