Month: May 2017

119. Relationship Evolution and Plateaus

This post is a response to a question I was asked about some comments I left. I have written upon these subjects in the past quite a bit on my Blogger blog but I’m going to write about them again. All relationships change over time because the people involved in the relationships change. In D/s … Continue reading 119. Relationship Evolution and Plateaus

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118. Random Update

It looks like my job is safe for the time being, but nothing guaranteed.  If it falls apart it will be within the next 2-3 weeks but I at least have the comfort of knowing that I won't have to sue anyone to get paid. Thank you everyone that wrote to me with your support.  … Continue reading 118. Random Update

116. Compatibility Concept: Giving and Receiving

I have written about this idea a lot in the past on my Blogger blog but I don't think I have made a post on it while here on WordPress. I know when it comes to courting in kink-related relationships a lot of people tend to look for kink-overlap as one of the more important … Continue reading 116. Compatibility Concept: Giving and Receiving

113. Why isn’t there more writing about the mental aspects of D/s?

Why isn't there more writing about the mental aspects of D/s? I find this completely puzzling as there are often carefully crafted relationship dynamics in place with the goal of keeping a sub twisting in deep subspace and a Domme maintaining a heightened Domspace.  I find it fascinating how people manage to keep a sub … Continue reading 113. Why isn’t there more writing about the mental aspects of D/s?

112. Random Perversions: New (to me) Bondage Gear

I haven't purchased any new gear but after hunting for a link to the "How may I help you?" gag I ended up finding the primary site of the company that makes them, Scott Paul Designs. I had remembered that the gag wasn't of the locking variety so it wasn't as interesting as it could … Continue reading 112. Random Perversions: New (to me) Bondage Gear

111. SPH: Tee Ball for Humiliation

Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) is a fascinating topic to me because of how blown out of proportion penis insecurity is. At its core fall two basic principles: Your penis size is inadequate to the point for you to exercise sexual proficiency. Other people will shame you if they see it. I tend to ignore #2 … Continue reading 111. SPH: Tee Ball for Humiliation

110. Domestic Service: Adulting for Two

Yesterday's post on An Expectation of Service was inspired by a conversation with a Domme friend and it got a bit twisted up as I ended up covering why I recommend every single sub to be willing to perform domestic service as well as the way that I fetishize it in my own head.  I … Continue reading 110. Domestic Service: Adulting for Two