18+ NSFW. A place for Femdom ideas, D/s theory, and random thoughts
Month: July 2017
A handful of discussions over the past couple of weeks as well as a blog post that got me thinking about my submission and how I have come to understand and explain it over the years. Submission has become such a large part of who I am, what drives me, how I express love, how … Continue reading 138. It made sense upon reflection
I've never been the type that has been able to be hypnotized. That being said I'm sick of my brain feeling blocked and I have a friend currently delving into hypnosis so they have whipped up some audio training to try and help me out. The idea we are going for is to instill a … Continue reading 137. Experimenting with Hypnosis
I know that not all D/s practitioners are in loving relationships but many of us are. I believe that submission encapsulates a large number of things, some of which match our desires completely and others which may carry a series of conditions or some reluctance and hesitation. I have come across and experienced varying points … Continue reading 136. I love you so much that I ______.
A big thanks to Vanessa at Queening Chairs for reminding me that I still hadn't purchased Sardax's Venus in Furs book. Sardax is my favorite fetish artist of all time and served as one of my gateways into the realm of Femdom when I first stumbled upon his artwork circa 1997. While his pay site … Continue reading 135. Sardax’s Venus in Furs
It has taken quite a while but I'm finally starting to crack the fundamental differences in point of view that has caused me quite a few communication difficulties over the years. The main difficulty seems to be with the view of submission. It is very common for me to read the view that submission should … Continue reading 134. The Need for Mental Spaces
Recently a couple of blogs I follow have made requests for readers to share their sexual fantasies in an effort to give some inspiration for ideas. I have found that at some point I stopped having sexual fantasies. That's not to say that I don't fantasize, but I no longer really have singular specific acts … Continue reading 133. Individual Fantasies
The past couple of weeks I've been feeling, for lack of a better description, "dead inside." A series of events unfolded on the home front that once again have made my existence feel marginalized and taken for granted. This has been a recurring theme throughout the course of our relationship and first started happening at … Continue reading 132. Marginalized
