Category: Personal

582. Recent postings and Fetlife

Sorry for the post barrage today. The majority of posts that I have written lately I composed for Fetlife. They were meant for the ~200ish people on there that I am friends with or are following me. I have rarely if ever put any of my blog writing on Fetlife before, so a lot of … Continue reading 582. Recent postings and Fetlife

579. WTF Sexuality? Part 2

Originally posted on Fetlife I received a few comments on part 1 that I will reply to on their own, but I also wanted to write about one of them here because it was a good question. The equilibrium in which I live is a fragile balance that relies heavily upon having a firm understanding … Continue reading 579. WTF Sexuality? Part 2

575. I am a cishet presenting male that is afraid of other cishet presenting males

Originally posted on Fetlife Lately I feel like I have some friendships forming with other males for the first time in a long time. It has been over a decade since that happened. It’s not that I’m opposed to those friendships, it’s just far more difficult for me to open up in them and develop … Continue reading 575. I am a cishet presenting male that is afraid of other cishet presenting males

567. Gender Identity, Tolerance, and Generational Fears

Originally posted by me on Fetlife. I was away from the community for a long time. In that time I was gone, I somehow missed a load of social progress that I became suddenly aware of upon my return. It made me feel something that I hadn’t felt in a very long time: I felt … Continue reading 567. Gender Identity, Tolerance, and Generational Fears

565. “Sub-Sexual” and the pain of its loss

A couple of years ago I heard the term “sub-sexual” at a munch and it was one of those moments where 30 years of confusion in my life became abundantly clear with the discovery of a single word. I find it funny when simply having a vocabulary to properly understand ourselves can provide such comfort. … Continue reading 565. “Sub-Sexual” and the pain of its loss