502. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Mental Spaces in BDSM v. 1.0 (12/20/2018)

I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. As this is designed for a Femdom discussion group, it may lean more heavily towards the F/m end of the spectrum although I … Continue reading 502. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Mental Spaces in BDSM v. 1.0 (12/20/2018)

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501. Discussion Topics

One of the local Femdom groups that I attend has discussion topics at each of its meetings and at the last gathering they put a call out for topic ideas for 2019.  I have a number of them that I would like to discuss and my plan is for each of them, I will be … Continue reading 501. Discussion Topics

498. Thoughts on the Mechanics of Courting in BDSM and D/s

The interactions that I have with people within the lifestyle are generally my source of inspiration for blog topics.  Overall I try to stay well-versed in both the F/m and M/f styles.  This past year I have realized how lacking I am in knowledge of the F/f and M/m communities.  I am certain that they … Continue reading 498. Thoughts on the Mechanics of Courting in BDSM and D/s

497. Thoughts on Experience Levels on both sides of the slash

There is another topic that has been lurking around in my brain for the past month or two and is quite relevant with the mentoring that I have been doing this year that I mentioned in my last post. I haven't encountered too many available subs out there with a highly-refined and evolved sense of … Continue reading 497. Thoughts on Experience Levels on both sides of the slash

496. Wednesday Ramblings on subs and Dommes

I had originally planned on writing a follow-up post to my last post but after some deliberation and conversation with others I decided against it.  While the content of this post may be somewhat related, it is not what I had originally considered writing. This year has been a very busy one for me in … Continue reading 496. Wednesday Ramblings on subs and Dommes

494. Explaining “The Assignment”

Sweetgirl's latest post talked about an exercise that I frequently encourage for subs.  It is something that I encouraged her to do early on and it is something that I recommend for subs that are newer or are in relationships and looking to take D/s to the next level.  I thought that it would be … Continue reading 494. Explaining “The Assignment”

493. You can’t make this up…

Sometimes I worry that I am too harsh with my criticisms of the often clumsy approaches that sub men make within this lifestyle.  Thankfully, I have Domme friends that send me things like this: If you really read it closely, you can almost pinpoint the exact spot where he changes gears, shifting from, "This is … Continue reading 493. You can’t make this up…