504. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Emotional Masochism and Sadism

I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts.   I should note that this post wasn't really part of my plan for discussion topics but I plan to reference these topics in … Continue reading 504. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Emotional Masochism and Sadism

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503. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Top/Dominant, Bottom/Submissive

These are my thoughts on a potential discussion topic for a local Femdom group that I attend as I wrote about here: 501. Discussion Topics The topic of what is a top, dominant, bottom, and submissive is not a topic that I would have suggested, but it was brought up when the question was asked … Continue reading 503. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Top/Dominant, Bottom/Submissive

502. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Mental Spaces in BDSM v. 1.0 (12/20/2018)

I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. As this is designed for a Femdom discussion group, it may lean more heavily towards the F/m end of the spectrum although I … Continue reading 502. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Mental Spaces in BDSM v. 1.0 (12/20/2018)

498. Thoughts on the Mechanics of Courting in BDSM and D/s

The interactions that I have with people within the lifestyle are generally my source of inspiration for blog topics.  Overall I try to stay well-versed in both the F/m and M/f styles.  This past year I have realized how lacking I am in knowledge of the F/f and M/m communities.  I am certain that they … Continue reading 498. Thoughts on the Mechanics of Courting in BDSM and D/s

497. Thoughts on Experience Levels on both sides of the slash

There is another topic that has been lurking around in my brain for the past month or two and is quite relevant with the mentoring that I have been doing this year that I mentioned in my last post. I haven't encountered too many available subs out there with a highly-refined and evolved sense of … Continue reading 497. Thoughts on Experience Levels on both sides of the slash

496. Wednesday Ramblings on subs and Dommes

I had originally planned on writing a follow-up post to my last post but after some deliberation and conversation with others I decided against it.  While the content of this post may be somewhat related, it is not what I had originally considered writing. This year has been a very busy one for me in … Continue reading 496. Wednesday Ramblings on subs and Dommes