546. Late Night Thoughts 11/08/19

Right now there are a lot of things going on in my life that I am very grateful for.  I have connections with people that are dear to me.  The new Femdom group that I helped create is a success.  There is a lot of good going on. I'm struggling. Over the past 2+ months … Continue reading 546. Late Night Thoughts 11/08/19

545. Submissive Men: Too Many and Too Few

Over the years I have written numerous times about how submissive men vastly outnumber dominant women.  Over the years I have also read many accounts of dominant women stating that there are a shortage of submissive men. Which one of these views is correct?   Both. It is possible for both to be true based upon … Continue reading 545. Submissive Men: Too Many and Too Few

544. By Request: Entering the Kink Realm

This topic was submitted by WrittenCasey: I would value your thoughts on, experiences with, and recollections of those who have realized there is nothing vanilla about them and are attempting to navigate themselves into non-vanilla circles for the first time. The experience of self-realization compounding with putting that more authentic self “out there” for the … Continue reading 544. By Request: Entering the Kink Realm

543. Stuck

I have 25+ trashed drafts right now of posts that I'm just not inspired enough to finish.  It's frustrating. If people have requests for topics or questions they would want me to answer I am open to suggestions.

541. I have forgotten how to socialize like a vanilla person

Over the past decade, I have watched my vanilla social circle slowly dwindle and my desire to socialize and circulate within vanilla circles dwindle with it.  It's been a long time since I felt comfortable being around vanilla people. Over the past year and a half I have jumped with both feet into the kink-realm.  … Continue reading 541. I have forgotten how to socialize like a vanilla person

540. Today’s Thoughts on Service Submission

So I am attending a Femdom discussion munch tonight on service.  I've written a lot about this in the past and at some point I may do a write-up/Guide, but for now, I just wanted to write something brief-ish to gather my thoughts for the discussion tonight. In BDSM communities, service submission often falls through … Continue reading 540. Today’s Thoughts on Service Submission

538. Expanding Upon Thoughts on Shame as a Fetish

This is a follow up to post 537. Thoughts on Shame as a Fetish. Thank you everyone for the comments on 537.  I plan to respond to them tomorrow when my head is feeling clearer.  I had some talks about the content of that post and I wanted to elaborate on it now when the … Continue reading 538. Expanding Upon Thoughts on Shame as a Fetish