473. Thoughts on Jaded subs and Arrogant subs

I have recently been helping a new Domme screen profiles.  I also did some sleuthing in her area to see if there were any promising subs.  While collarspace is dying, there are still some people logging in and it's much easier to search/sort there than it is on fetlife. It has been a while since … Continue reading 473. Thoughts on Jaded subs and Arrogant subs

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472. Thoughts on Sadism vs. Malice

It's sort of ironic that I had this blog post title already saved as a draft I was intending to write about when a couple of minutes ago a Domme friend messaged me about receiving some negative comments from someone that completely relates to this topic.  I was originally planning on writing this from a … Continue reading 472. Thoughts on Sadism vs. Malice

471. Dominance and the Light/Dark Spectrum

Posts 468, 469, and 470 dealt with the light and dark sides of submission.  As I have been helping to mentor a few new doms I thought it might be helpful to explore the other side of things. For ease, I will be using "dom" to signify dominant the noun/person/role and dominant for the adjective. … Continue reading 471. Dominance and the Light/Dark Spectrum

470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3

Note: This is part of a series of posts.  Other related posts: 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2 I received some very good comments on Part 2 from a number of other bloggers.  I realized that answering them thoroughly would basically take at least a posts's worth … Continue reading 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3

469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2

Note: This is part of a series of posts.  Other related posts: 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3 This is sort of a continuation of my last post.  I had originally planned to combine these topics but I felt they should be split so as not get … Continue reading 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2

468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1

Note: This ended up being part of a series of posts.  Other related posts: 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3 I have been having some conversations lately with a number of subs and a couple of topics keep popping up.  This post will include a lot of … Continue reading 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1

464. There’s a First Time for Everything (2018)

I try to be even-keeled in my presence on the blogosphere.  While I will rant now and then and express frustration, I generally don't get into beef in blog comments. Over the years I've been insulted or criticized countless times.  I have always found some way to either try to tactfully defuse the situation or … Continue reading 464. There’s a First Time for Everything (2018)