425. Thoughts on Differences

Some comments on my last post got me thinking a bit about the habits of people in BDSM and D/s and why there is a tendency for them to flock to others of a similar type while mostly ignoring people who engage in a different type of lifestyle dynamic.  I will fully admit that when …

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424. Thoughts on Consent or Not

Often you will come across philosophies on D/s that conflict with one another on a fundamental level.  When people of different types encounter one another it can be difficult for them to communicate effectively because their perspectives are so different.  One example of this is people who engage in loving, romantic D/s relationships vs. those …

423. Thoughts about Relationships

It feels like about every 8 months or so I go through a phase where I think about perspectives that involve some form of fundamentally unbridgeable gap yet find myself wanting to dig in and understand why. Something I've known over the years is that what I seek from a relationship is different than most …

422. An Intro to F/m – Part 12

These posts are targeted at people who are new to F/m, including those with experience in M/f who have not seen the other side of things. Previous Intro to F/m Posts Another common aspect in F/m that is far less common in M/f is a recurring theme of "forced."  Forced chastity.  Forced feminization.  Forced bi.  …

421. Masterful Manipulation

My last post wasn't the topic I had intended it to be.  It got derailed by a tangent and I decided to take it in its own direction.  This is the topic that I had intended to write about. One of the things that I look for in a Domme is their ability to manipulate …

420. Thoughts on dominant philosophies

I am still digging through my brain and trying to solve the mystery upon certain Femdom philosophies that I really do not understand very well.  Part of capturing a perspective is not by simply stating the words, but digging deeper to find the underlying thought process, experiences, and outlooks that shape that philosophy into what …

419. Combining Needs and Value

While I was writing earlier today I realized that post 416. More on Submissive Needs and post 417. Thoughts on Value going back to back wasn't a good mix.  In an F/m context, the value idea seems to contradict the idea of submissive needs a bit.  The reality of it is that #417 was in …

417. Thoughts on Value

I do not believe in gender supremacy.  I don't think that being born a particular gender makes a person superior nor well-suited as a dom.  I don't think that being born a particular gender makes a person inferior not well-suited as a sub.  Philosophically, the way that I reject this concept for one gender requires …

416. More on Submissive Needs

I read a quote yesterday on a blog that I probably should un-follow. I don't want to "enslave" anyone. I want to inspire one to willingly lay their freedom at my feet. In the past I have attempted to dialogue with this author before.  They made it clear to me they have no desire to …

413. Sizzlin’ Saturdays 03/31/18

Prompt by Nora. Describe your favorite sex toy and what it does for you. I don't actually have one.  At some point I almost bought a Fleshlight, but ended up not getting one.  I have tried a couple of those silicone masturbators but they were meh.  So the answer here might be my hand. What …