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I have finished up another few more bondage creations, including another fantasy device from fs01. If you are interested in seeing them they are up on my other blog located here: https://fursissy.wordpress.com/tag/leather-crafting/
For the duration of my blogging "career," I have encouraged subs to try to become more service-oriented. To me, service-oriented submission is to find fulfillment in their submission in the ways that benefit a Domme and provide enhancements to her life and lifestyle. When I first got started as a sub, I was more of … Continue reading 521. Thoughts on Service and Servitude
This post has been due for a while now. Over the past 4 years or so, I had a the sense that my style of submission was on the verge of extinction. This wasn't because of a shortage of subs that submit in the way that I do, but more so because of a shift … Continue reading 520. Thoughts on the existence of the dark Domme
Her: "You know, all the other subs are jealous of you, right?" Me: "What? Who? What? Jealous of what?" Her: "All of the male subs. They are all jealous of you." Me: "What? Jealous of what?" Her: "That Dommes talk to you and pay attention to what you have to say. I can't believe you … Continue reading 518. Recent Community Experiences
It seems that my self-induced mania has kicked in and cleared my brain clouds. Over the past few months I have started crafting BDSM-Gear. I'm still a novice and have quite a bit to learn, but I'm really enjoying coming up with different designs for items that don't exist anywhere else. I wrote about one … Continue reading 517. Crafting BDSM Gear
This is another topic I had planned to write about during my last hiatus but never got around to it. For the purpose of this post I will be using the term "fetish" to mean a non-standard (aka non-sexual) act, object, or body part that elicits a sexual response. For me to classify something as … Continue reading 516. Thoughts on unpopular fetishes
Over the past few weeks, and especially the past few days, I have had some recent discussions about submission and a recurring theme has continued to pop up: the idea of "broken" subs. Over the course of these discussions I found myself committing many words to paper that had only existed in my head up … Continue reading 515. Thoughts on “broken” subs
Although I haven't been writing, I have still been attending munches for local BDSM groups (we have tons). I have to say that a lingering note of interest to me is the absence of D/s. It isn't taught. It isn't talked about. It is rarely practiced. In many ways, it is treated as if D/s … Continue reading 514. More Thoughts on D/s in the BDSM Community
I've been struggling with ideas on what to write about lately. Earlier today I realized that I had unearthed some pretty consistent themes while writing my Discussion Group posts. While attempting to write something coherent I lost my train of thought and fizzled out. I still find some of this to be interesting so I … Continue reading 511. Moderately scattered thoughts on an oddity within the F/m community
A couple of local Dommes I am helping mentor are actively seeking subs but they have been continuously bombarded with generic or poor messages from prospective subs. I felt like writing today, so here comes a post on the subject. Having been in the position of writing a first message to a Domme, I understand … Continue reading 510. Tips on Writing an Introductory Message to a Domme
