Tag: bdsm

474. Thoughts on the Psychology of Dynamics

One of the things that impresses me the most is when a dominant maintains an environment full of dynamics that constantly serve as fuel for their dominance and the sub's submission.  This takes quite a bit of work to create such an environment and a continuous effort to keep it rolling.  To the dominants that … Continue reading 474. Thoughts on the Psychology of Dynamics

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473. Thoughts on Jaded subs and Arrogant subs

I have recently been helping a new Domme screen profiles.  I also did some sleuthing in her area to see if there were any promising subs.  While collarspace is dying, there are still some people logging in and it's much easier to search/sort there than it is on fetlife. It has been a while since … Continue reading 473. Thoughts on Jaded subs and Arrogant subs

472. Thoughts on Sadism vs. Malice

It's sort of ironic that I had this blog post title already saved as a draft I was intending to write about when a couple of minutes ago a Domme friend messaged me about receiving some negative comments from someone that completely relates to this topic.  I was originally planning on writing this from a … Continue reading 472. Thoughts on Sadism vs. Malice

471. Dominance and the Light/Dark Spectrum

Posts 468, 469, and 470 dealt with the light and dark sides of submission.  As I have been helping to mentor a few new doms I thought it might be helpful to explore the other side of things. For ease, I will be using "dom" to signify dominant the noun/person/role and dominant for the adjective. … Continue reading 471. Dominance and the Light/Dark Spectrum

470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3

Note: This is part of a series of posts.  Other related posts: 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2 I received some very good comments on Part 2 from a number of other bloggers.  I realized that answering them thoroughly would basically take at least a posts's worth … Continue reading 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3

469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2

Note: This is part of a series of posts.  Other related posts: 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3 This is sort of a continuation of my last post.  I had originally planned to combine these topics but I felt they should be split so as not get … Continue reading 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2

468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1

Note: This ended up being part of a series of posts.  Other related posts: 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3 I have been having some conversations lately with a number of subs and a couple of topics keep popping up.  This post will include a lot of … Continue reading 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1

463. My Understanding of Domspace and Dominant Mental Space

For those of you who have been reading for a while, you may remember that when I was writing my fs02 erotica I went through a process to try to understand how things work within the mind of a sadist.  Since then, I have evolved my theory based upon discussions with dominants and wanted to … Continue reading 463. My Understanding of Domspace and Dominant Mental Space