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I've been struggling with ideas on what to write about lately. Earlier today I realized that I had unearthed some pretty consistent themes while writing my Discussion Group posts. While attempting to write something coherent I lost my train of thought and fizzled out. I still find some of this to be interesting so I … Continue reading 511. Moderately scattered thoughts on an oddity within the F/m community
A couple of local Dommes I am helping mentor are actively seeking subs but they have been continuously bombarded with generic or poor messages from prospective subs. I felt like writing today, so here comes a post on the subject. Having been in the position of writing a first message to a Domme, I understand … Continue reading 510. Tips on Writing an Introductory Message to a Domme
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a Femdom discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. Note: For the sake of ease, I will be using kink and fetish interchangeably rather than writing kink/fetish in every appropriate spot. … Continue reading 509. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Kink Shaming, Kink Desirability, and how they fit into Femdom
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. I. What is sub-frenzy? The term sub-frenzy has been around for decades, but in more recent years the definition has become rather incomplete. … Continue reading 508. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Sub-Frenzy
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a Femdom discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. Note: my background in the Femdom arena only goes back to the mid-1990s. Much of the "early internet" was still available at … Continue reading 507. Discussion Topic Write-Up: A Brief History of FLR and its place in and out of BDSM
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. I. Introduction I first wrote about meta-consent back in 2011. As of then, to the best of my knowledge, it had not been … Continue reading 506. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Meta-Consent
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a Femdom discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. As this group involves only male submissives I am limiting this post to the topic of male chastity, which is a slightly … Continue reading 505. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Enforced Male Chastity
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. I should note that this post wasn't really part of my plan for discussion topics but I plan to reference these topics in … Continue reading 504. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Emotional Masochism and Sadism
These are my thoughts on a potential discussion topic for a local Femdom group that I attend as I wrote about here: 501. Discussion Topics The topic of what is a top, dominant, bottom, and submissive is not a topic that I would have suggested, but it was brought up when the question was asked … Continue reading 503. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Top/Dominant, Bottom/Submissive
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. As this is designed for a Femdom discussion group, it may lean more heavily towards the F/m end of the spectrum although I … Continue reading 502. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Mental Spaces in BDSM v. 1.0 (12/20/2018)
