Chastity Tips: When it Burns

This year's chastity experiments have taught me a lot about fit.  This is one of those frustrating topics because of the cost of devices and uncertainty about comfort for long-term wear. You'll hear a lot of people talk about fit and issues, but very rarely are things described well enough to figure out what is …

June adventures with Chastity

So after my failed experiences with the Holy Trainer and Strict Gate earlier this year and doing some blog reading I was able to learn more about fit and lubrication than ever before.  My couple of weeks with the Holy Trainer was able to stretch me enough to fit back into the CB-6000S.  Unfortunately I …

A Dilemma

With the help of a friend I was finally able to channel a deep subspace the other day. It was the good kind of space... the kind that I write my fiction from and have been struggling to find for a few months now. Something jumped out at me from the experience and I have …

Double Standards 2017 Part 2

Wow, I just realize how rant-like the last post felt. It wasn't meant to be as it was actually supposed to be a contrast piece designed to inform someone about something I had talked about earlier. I guess I should cut down on drinking Haterade. I did have something I wanted to follow up with. …

Double Standards in Fantasy, Porn, and Kink – 2017 Edition

Yes, I'm revisiting a topic that I have written about before as it is fresh in my thoughts... Today while leaving some comments on a blog entry I got to thinking about how there are societal double-standards when it comes to how men and women approach fantasy, porn, and kink. This isn't something that gets …

“Is there a right way?” is the Wrong Question

Please do let me know if splitting this rant up into three separate mini rants makes me seem like less of a sad little hate-monger banging away in the darkness on a keyboard in a parent's basement with nothing better to do.  I don't live in a parent's basement. Hopefully this will get it all …

Guides and Edumacation

Welcome to rant #2 of the day... First off, I want to state that I respect those that take the time to create guides.  It is a lot of work and rarely yields any type of reward except for a few back pats, and at best, the most common result is plagiarism. Recently I have …