Tag: domme

384. Evolving Entitlement: Dismissive Attitude

I know that this is a repeat topic for me, but a number of Dommes I know have been blogging over entitlement in the past week and I thought it would be a good time to write about this again as it sort of follows suit.  I find entitlement absolutely fascinating because it is not … Continue reading 384. Evolving Entitlement: Dismissive Attitude

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375. Thoughts on “The Big Takeaway”

It was roughly seven years ago that Lady Grey at Woman in Control made a post called "The Big Takeaway."  Unfortunately this post was lost when she deleted a number of her early posts but some conversations that I have had recently with some newer Dommes got me thinking about it once again and I … Continue reading 375. Thoughts on “The Big Takeaway”

355. An Intro to F/m – Part 10

If you would like to read the other parts of this:  https://fcsyblog.wordpress.com/tag/intro-to-f-m/ Skipping disclaimers due to laziness.  This is targeted at those who are unfamiliar with F/m. You've probably seen me complain at times about the massive disparity in numbers between available submissive men and available dominant women.  From my experiences this has ranged from … Continue reading 355. An Intro to F/m – Part 10

337. Thoughts on Sadism and Parallel Voices

Sorry if this post is a bit roundabout.  A lot of it is me getting my thoughts down as I try to organize them. While writing Arcs 3 and 4 of fs02 one of the themes I explored was a Domme discovering, exploring, and developing her sadistic side.  This was excruciatingly challenging for me seeing … Continue reading 337. Thoughts on Sadism and Parallel Voices

286. She Has the Power to Create and Reshape Reality

My last two posts, A Pragmatic View from a single male submissive and Small Doubts seem to have gotten a bit of discussion going both in comments and via private contact.  A couple of discussions today found me wanting to elaborate more upon this and how it affects things in the D/s world in general. … Continue reading 286. She Has the Power to Create and Reshape Reality

271. Thoughts on Dominance, Personality, and Domspace

I have been thinking a bit more about this lately as I am now facing the prospect of having to start my life over yet again. A while ago I wrote about submissive mental space and about how that serves as the dividing line for many people that separates their submissive persona from their vanilla … Continue reading 271. Thoughts on Dominance, Personality, and Domspace

187. Thoughts on the existence of the Dominant Female

This is a follow up post to: Thoughts on the existence of the submissive male I may be making a lot of references to that post as I don't wish to restate things that I have already said. Dominant women face their own set of challenges in this world of kink.  While many of them … Continue reading 187. Thoughts on the existence of the Dominant Female

185. Thoughts on Loving Sadists

A handful of recent conversations I have had with subs leads me to believe there is a bit of misunderstanding when it comes to lifestyle D/s involving sadists.  There seems to be a bit of a notion that they can easily cast aside feelings and inflict unbearable levels of pain and suffering upon a sub. … Continue reading 185. Thoughts on Loving Sadists

175. Thoughts on Pegging

To be honest, pegging scares the hell out of me.  It makes me cringe.  It makes me squirm.  It makes every nerve in my body go active and I want to run away.  Anything near my hole has me cringing, screaming, and struggling.  It seriously terrifies me. Anal penetration was a hard limit of mine … Continue reading 175. Thoughts on Pegging