Tag: domme

472. Thoughts on Sadism vs. Malice

It's sort of ironic that I had this blog post title already saved as a draft I was intending to write about when a couple of minutes ago a Domme friend messaged me about receiving some negative comments from someone that completely relates to this topic.  I was originally planning on writing this from a … Continue reading 472. Thoughts on Sadism vs. Malice

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463. My Understanding of Domspace and Dominant Mental Space

For those of you who have been reading for a while, you may remember that when I was writing my fs02 erotica I went through a process to try to understand how things work within the mind of a sadist.  Since then, I have evolved my theory based upon discussions with dominants and wanted to … Continue reading 463. My Understanding of Domspace and Dominant Mental Space

384. Evolving Entitlement: Dismissive Attitude

I know that this is a repeat topic for me, but a number of Dommes I know have been blogging over entitlement in the past week and I thought it would be a good time to write about this again as it sort of follows suit.  I find entitlement absolutely fascinating because it is not … Continue reading 384. Evolving Entitlement: Dismissive Attitude

375. Thoughts on “The Big Takeaway”

It was roughly seven years ago that Lady Grey at Woman in Control made a post called "The Big Takeaway."  Unfortunately this post was lost when she deleted a number of her early posts but some conversations that I have had recently with some newer Dommes got me thinking about it once again and I … Continue reading 375. Thoughts on “The Big Takeaway”

355. An Intro to F/m – Part 10

If you would like to read the other parts of this:  https://fcsyblog.wordpress.com/tag/intro-to-f-m/ Skipping disclaimers due to laziness.  This is targeted at those who are unfamiliar with F/m. You've probably seen me complain at times about the massive disparity in numbers between available submissive men and available dominant women.  From my experiences this has ranged from … Continue reading 355. An Intro to F/m – Part 10

337. Thoughts on Sadism and Parallel Voices

Sorry if this post is a bit roundabout.  A lot of it is me getting my thoughts down as I try to organize them. While writing Arcs 3 and 4 of fs02 one of the themes I explored was a Domme discovering, exploring, and developing her sadistic side.  This was excruciatingly challenging for me seeing … Continue reading 337. Thoughts on Sadism and Parallel Voices

286. She Has the Power to Create and Reshape Reality

My last two posts, A Pragmatic View from a single male submissive and Small Doubts seem to have gotten a bit of discussion going both in comments and via private contact.  A couple of discussions today found me wanting to elaborate more upon this and how it affects things in the D/s world in general. … Continue reading 286. She Has the Power to Create and Reshape Reality

271. Thoughts on Dominance, Personality, and Domspace

I have been thinking a bit more about this lately as I am now facing the prospect of having to start my life over yet again. A while ago I wrote about submissive mental space and about how that serves as the dividing line for many people that separates their submissive persona from their vanilla … Continue reading 271. Thoughts on Dominance, Personality, and Domspace

187. Thoughts on the existence of the Dominant Female

This is a follow up post to: Thoughts on the existence of the submissive male I may be making a lot of references to that post as I don't wish to restate things that I have already said. Dominant women face their own set of challenges in this world of kink.  While many of them … Continue reading 187. Thoughts on the existence of the Dominant Female