Tag: domme

Hope

I have mentioned briefly a couple of times that there is a Domme that has her eye on me.  She has had her eye on me for a while now.  I have known her for years.  We met through blogging and became very good friends.  She was not always a Domme but is growing into … Continue reading Hope

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She Has the Power to Create and Reshape Reality

My last two posts, A Pragmatic View from a single male submissive and Small Doubts seem to have gotten a bit of discussion going both in comments and via private contact.  A couple of discussions today found me wanting to elaborate more upon this and how it affects things in the D/s world in general. … Continue reading She Has the Power to Create and Reshape Reality

Thoughts on Dominance, Personality, and Domspace

I have been thinking a bit more about this lately as I am now facing the prospect of having to start my life over yet again. A while ago I wrote about submissive mental space and about how that serves as the dividing line for many people that separates their submissive persona from their vanilla … Continue reading Thoughts on Dominance, Personality, and Domspace

Thoughts on the existence of the Dominant Female

This is a follow up post to: Thoughts on the existence of the submissive male I may be making a lot of references to that post as I don't wish to restate things that I have already said. Dominant women face their own set of challenges in this world of kink.  While many of them … Continue reading Thoughts on the existence of the Dominant Female

Redundancy in D/s

Redundancy is one of those words that often carries a negative connotation with it. Unnecessary. Superfluous. Excess. When we deal with it in the world it can often seem tedious, wasteful, and bureaucratic. However, I find redundancy in design to be fascinating. Fail-safes. Checks and balances. Backup systems. Contingencies. Everyone has probably seen some movie … Continue reading Redundancy in D/s

An exercise in humility part 2

I wanted to give a thank you to Ms Dixie and Nora for their comments on the first post.  I'm feeling vulnerable, exposed, and submissive at the moment.  Which seems like a prime time to delve deeper into that which I fear to show.  The positive and playful responses make this easier to feel like … Continue reading An exercise in humility part 2