I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. As this is designed for a Femdom discussion group, it may lean more heavily towards the F/m end of the spectrum although I … Continue reading 502. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Mental Spaces in BDSM v. 1.0 (12/20/2018)
It feels like forever since I last made a "real" post. Those who have followed me over the years know that I write quite a bit about the mental spaces that exist for both the dominant and submissive roles. By and large, the theories I have developed pertaining to each of these represent the majority … Continue reading 485. Mental Spaces, Integration, and Awakenings
For those of you who have been reading for a while, you may remember that when I was writing my fs02 erotica I went through a process to try to understand how things work within the mind of a sadist. Since then, I have evolved my theory based upon discussions with dominants and wanted to … Continue reading 463. My Understanding of Domspace and Dominant Mental Space
Sorry if this post is a bit roundabout. A lot of it is me getting my thoughts down as I try to organize them. While writing Arcs 3 and 4 of fs02 one of the themes I explored was a Domme discovering, exploring, and developing her sadistic side. This was excruciatingly challenging for me seeing … Continue reading 337. Thoughts on Sadism and Parallel Voices
In the past couple of weeks I have been helping a number of people with the same subject and I figured it would be worth making a post of it. For the sake of ease, I'm going to make use of my own version of the term "subspace" that I have used for years because … Continue reading 203. Separating self and spaces
Why isn't there more writing about the mental aspects of D/s? I find this completely puzzling as there are often carefully crafted relationship dynamics in place with the goal of keeping a sub twisting in deep subspace and a Domme maintaining a heightened Domspace. I find it fascinating how people manage to keep a sub … Continue reading 113. Why isn’t there more writing about the mental aspects of D/s?