With the help of a friend I was finally able to channel a deep subspace the other day. It was the good kind of space... the kind that I write my fiction from and have been struggling to find for a few months now. Something jumped out at me from the experience and I have … Continue reading A Dilemma
I can't remember how much of this I have shared here on WP, but over the past month or so I have been struggling with the idea that I might be a little. This is because in one of my deeper submissive mental states I find my feelings closely resembling those of a younger version … Continue reading A Little Clarity (no pun intended)
This post is a response to a question I was asked about some comments I left. I have written upon these subjects in the past quite a bit on my Blogger blog but I’m going to write about them again. All relationships change over time because the people involved in the relationships change. In D/s … Continue reading Relationship Evolution and Plateaus
I have written about this idea a lot in the past on my Blogger blog but I don't think I have made a post on it while here on WordPress. I know when it comes to courting in kink-related relationships a lot of people tend to look for kink-overlap as one of the more important … Continue reading Compatibility Concept: Giving and Receiving
Why isn't there more writing about the mental aspects of D/s? I find this completely puzzling as there are often carefully crafted relationship dynamics in place with the goal of keeping a sub twisting in deep subspace and a Domme maintaining a heightened Domspace. I find it fascinating how people manage to keep a sub … Continue reading Why isn’t there more writing about the mental aspects of D/s?
I haven't purchased any new gear but after hunting for a link to the "How may I help you?" gag I ended up finding the primary site of the company that makes them, Scott Paul Designs. I had remembered that the gag wasn't of the locking variety so it wasn't as interesting as it could … Continue reading Random Perversions: New (to me) Bondage Gear
Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) is a fascinating topic to me because of how blown out of proportion penis insecurity is. At its core fall two basic principles: Your penis size is inadequate to the point for you to exercise sexual proficiency. Other people will shame you if they see it. I tend to ignore #2 … Continue reading SPH: Tee Ball for Humiliation