Tag: D/s

540. Today’s Thoughts on Service Submission

So I am attending a Femdom discussion munch tonight on service.  I've written a lot about this in the past and at some point I may do a write-up/Guide, but for now, I just wanted to write something brief-ish to gather my thoughts for the discussion tonight. In BDSM communities, service submission often falls through … Continue reading 540. Today’s Thoughts on Service Submission


538. Expanding Upon Thoughts on Shame as a Fetish

This is a follow up to post 537. Thoughts on Shame as a Fetish. Thank you everyone for the comments on 537.  I plan to respond to them tomorrow when my head is feeling clearer.  I had some talks about the content of that post and I wanted to elaborate on it now when the … Continue reading 538. Expanding Upon Thoughts on Shame as a Fetish

534. Absolute Consent

As things go in the ever-evolving nature of BDSM terminology, it appears that there has been yet another change.  There is a Fetlife group I have been following for years that tends to be the "cutting edge" discussion on this topic and their name seems to change every couple of years. Consensual Non-Consent -> Meta-Consent … Continue reading 534. Absolute Consent

530. “A Positive Submissive Response”

Over the past few months I have had quite a few discussions while trying to explain how the mechanics of D/s tend to work in various environments, especially in regards to subs. What I have found is that as a whole, there is very little common understanding of what subs "get out of it" if … Continue reading 530. “A Positive Submissive Response”

528. Thoughts on Submissive Male Shame and Emotional Masochism

Some days I wonder why I keep on blogging.  It's not that I have a reason to stop, it's that I find it harder to have a reason to continue.  In any case... A week ago I took part in a Femdom discussion munch that chose my topic of emotional sadism and masochism.   I had … Continue reading 528. Thoughts on Submissive Male Shame and Emotional Masochism

527. Thoughts on Mind-Fucking (2019)

In a couple of weeks the Femdom discussion munch I take part in will is going after another one of the topics that I suggested about 7 months ago.  The topic for this discussion is Emotional Sadism and Masochism.  I was given the task of doing the topic write-up and I did it by talking … Continue reading 527. Thoughts on Mind-Fucking (2019)