Tag: D/s

526. Thoughts on Switches and the Submissive Male

A comment on my last post led to an exchange where I feel like I uncovered something relatively important.  I will try to keep this as neat and clean as possible. I've written a lot in the past about the struggles of the submissive male with self-acceptance and society's bias against them, even in the … Continue reading 526. Thoughts on Switches and the Submissive Male

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523. Thoughts on Feeling Submissive vs. Being Dominated

So I've been writing and scrapping versions of this post for roughly three months now.  I've had a number of conversations about this topic over the past couple of months as well, but I have never been happy enough with the end result to publish it and they ended up on the trash heap.  Here … Continue reading 523. Thoughts on Feeling Submissive vs. Being Dominated

522. Humiliation is an Extension of the Real World

The other day I was explaining to someone about how humiliation can affect submission and I used the phrase, "humiliation is an extension of the real world."  It took me about five seconds to realize how much truth there was in that statement. I usually assume that by the time someone has developed a strong … Continue reading 522. Humiliation is an Extension of the Real World

520. Thoughts on Service and Servitude

For the duration of my blogging "career," I have encouraged subs to try to become more service-oriented.  To me, service-oriented submission is to find fulfillment in their submission in the ways that benefit a Domme and provide enhancements to her life and lifestyle. When I first got started as a sub, I was more of … Continue reading 520. Thoughts on Service and Servitude

519. Thoughts on the existence of the dark Domme

This post has been due for a while now. Over the past 4 years or so, I had a the sense that my style of submission was on the verge of extinction.  This wasn't because of a shortage of subs that submit in the way that I do, but more so because of a shift … Continue reading 519. Thoughts on the existence of the dark Domme

516. Thoughts on unpopular fetishes

This is another topic I had planned to write about during my last hiatus but never got around to it. For the purpose of this post I will be using the term "fetish" to mean a non-standard (aka non-sexual) act, object, or body part that elicits a sexual response.  For me to classify something as … Continue reading 516. Thoughts on unpopular fetishes

514. More Thoughts on D/s in the BDSM Community

Although I haven't been writing, I have still been attending munches for local BDSM groups (we have tons). I have to say that a lingering note of interest to me is the absence of D/s.  It isn't taught. It isn't talked about.  It is rarely practiced.  In many ways, it is treated as if D/s … Continue reading 514. More Thoughts on D/s in the BDSM Community

511. Moderately scattered thoughts on an oddity within the F/m community

I've been struggling with ideas on what to write about lately.  Earlier today I realized that I had unearthed some pretty consistent themes while writing my Discussion Group posts.  While attempting to write something coherent I lost my train of thought and fizzled out.  I still find some of this to be interesting so I … Continue reading 511. Moderately scattered thoughts on an oddity within the F/m community