Tag: D/s

Thoughts on my inner submissive

My inner submissive is the strongest part of me. Its love is fearless.  Its love is resilient and enduring.  Its love is encompassing and consuming. My inner submissive is the bravest part of me. It shows the truth.  It faces the truth.  It remains steadfast in the face of adversity. I wish that I could … Continue reading Thoughts on my inner submissive

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Thoughts on Sadism and Parallel Voices

Sorry if this post is a bit roundabout.  A lot of it is me getting my thoughts down as I try to organize them. While writing Arcs 3 and 4 of fs02 one of the themes I explored was a Domme discovering, exploring, and developing her sadistic side.  This was excruciatingly challenging for me seeing … Continue reading Thoughts on Sadism and Parallel Voices

Thoughts on Fostering Submissive Mental Space through Dynamics

This is sort of a follow-up to my post yesterday, Thoughts on Training. For ease and because I want to, I will be using "subspace" in place of submissive mental space. Subspace is one of those tricky concepts because I think that it's very difficult for people to spot it.  Eager and willing subs, especially … Continue reading Thoughts on Fostering Submissive Mental Space through Dynamics

A drop in the bucket: my place in the D/s blogging world

This post might sound like it's rooted in depression.  It's not.  I'm trying to rein in my ego which has spiraled out of control with this mania.  I need to be objective... and honest. It's easy for male submissive bloggers to be nearly irrelevant.  At any given time there are two or three that are … Continue reading A drop in the bucket: my place in the D/s blogging world

Thoughts on Kink Formation: How do we become what we are?

Notyouraveragegirl and SaydistGirl both had some follow up questions in the comments on my post Thoughts on Life-Shaping Events and D/s.  I wanted to address it a bit more here. I believe that we are, by and large, a mixture of nature and nurture.  Our genetic disposition and base brain instincts are responsible for some.  … Continue reading Thoughts on Kink Formation: How do we become what we are?