Tag: Femdom

521. Thoughts on Service and Servitude

For the duration of my blogging "career," I have encouraged subs to try to become more service-oriented.  To me, service-oriented submission is to find fulfillment in their submission in the ways that benefit a Domme and provide enhancements to her life and lifestyle. When I first got started as a sub, I was more of … Continue reading 521. Thoughts on Service and Servitude

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520. Thoughts on the existence of the dark Domme

This post has been due for a while now. Over the past 4 years or so, I had a the sense that my style of submission was on the verge of extinction.  This wasn't because of a shortage of subs that submit in the way that I do, but more so because of a shift … Continue reading 520. Thoughts on the existence of the dark Domme

517. Crafting BDSM Gear

It seems that my self-induced mania has kicked in and cleared my brain clouds. Over the past few months I have started crafting BDSM-Gear.  I'm still a novice and have quite a bit to learn, but I'm really enjoying coming up with different designs for items that don't exist anywhere else. I wrote about one … Continue reading 517. Crafting BDSM Gear

516. Thoughts on unpopular fetishes

This is another topic I had planned to write about during my last hiatus but never got around to it. For the purpose of this post I will be using the term "fetish" to mean a non-standard (aka non-sexual) act, object, or body part that elicits a sexual response.  For me to classify something as … Continue reading 516. Thoughts on unpopular fetishes

514. More Thoughts on D/s in the BDSM Community

Although I haven't been writing, I have still been attending munches for local BDSM groups (we have tons). I have to say that a lingering note of interest to me is the absence of D/s.  It isn't taught. It isn't talked about.  It is rarely practiced.  In many ways, it is treated as if D/s … Continue reading 514. More Thoughts on D/s in the BDSM Community

511. Moderately scattered thoughts on an oddity within the F/m community

I've been struggling with ideas on what to write about lately.  Earlier today I realized that I had unearthed some pretty consistent themes while writing my Discussion Group posts.  While attempting to write something coherent I lost my train of thought and fizzled out.  I still find some of this to be interesting so I … Continue reading 511. Moderately scattered thoughts on an oddity within the F/m community

510. Tips on Writing an Introductory Message to a Domme

A couple of local Dommes I am helping mentor are actively seeking subs but they have been continuously bombarded with generic or poor messages from prospective subs.  I felt like writing today, so here comes a post on the subject. Having been in the position of writing a first message to a Domme, I understand … Continue reading 510. Tips on Writing an Introductory Message to a Domme

509. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Kink Shaming, Kink Desirability, and how they fit into Femdom

I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a Femdom discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. Note: For the sake of ease, I will be using kink and fetish interchangeably rather than writing kink/fetish in every appropriate spot. … Continue reading 509. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Kink Shaming, Kink Desirability, and how they fit into Femdom