Tag: Femdom

497. Thoughts on Experience Levels on both sides of the slash

There is another topic that has been lurking around in my brain for the past month or two and is quite relevant with the mentoring that I have been doing this year that I mentioned in my last post. I haven't encountered too many available subs out there with a highly-refined and evolved sense of … Continue reading 497. Thoughts on Experience Levels on both sides of the slash

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496. Wednesday Ramblings on subs and Dommes

I had originally planned on writing a follow-up post to my last post but after some deliberation and conversation with others I decided against it.  While the content of this post may be somewhat related, it is not what I had originally considered writing. This year has been a very busy one for me in … Continue reading 496. Wednesday Ramblings on subs and Dommes

494. Explaining “The Assignment”

Sweetgirl's latest post talked about an exercise that I frequently encourage for subs.  It is something that I encouraged her to do early on and it is something that I recommend for subs that are newer or are in relationships and looking to take D/s to the next level.  I thought that it would be … Continue reading 494. Explaining “The Assignment”

493. You can’t make this up…

Sometimes I worry that I am too harsh with my criticisms of the often clumsy approaches that sub men make within this lifestyle.  Thankfully, I have Domme friends that send me things like this: If you really read it closely, you can almost pinpoint the exact spot where he changes gears, shifting from, "This is … Continue reading 493. You can’t make this up…

492. Service Term Creation: Compelled Service

I was reflecting upon a few conversations I have had recently that brought me to write the post 487. Service: Thoughts on What they say vs. What they mean and I had a couple of thoughts regarding how we communicate about service.  I do hope some of these terms manage to catch on. I came … Continue reading 492. Service Term Creation: Compelled Service

491. More submissive mental space and swimming pools fun

Some recent talks have brought me back to thinking about submissive mental space and various other spaces and I wanted to write a little bit more about it now.  As I often do, I will be referring to submissive mental space as "subspace" in an attempt to take back a word that has had its … Continue reading 491. More submissive mental space and swimming pools fun

489. Thoughts upon me, the submissive

The history of my life has been one where I have never felt desirable nor attractive.  I have always been different.  Different in such a way that the difference would be the characteristic that stood out the most.  Different was bad.  I would have to be twice as good to be considered half as good.  … Continue reading 489. Thoughts upon me, the submissive

487. Service: Thoughts on What they say vs. What they mean

Welcome to attempt #11 at finishing this post. I have been helping and mentoring some newer Dommes again and taking part in some local discussion groups and the topic of service has come up quite a bit.  Well, sort of.  Most of the time the topic revolves around service and how one party's definition of … Continue reading 487. Service: Thoughts on What they say vs. What they mean