Tag: humiliation

559. Thoughts on “Owning it”

This is a follow-up to my last post. I've been thinking more about the healing potential of people owning their inner demons rather than overcoming them.  I know that this is something that I have experienced in some ways.  I can't re-write how my inner-truths work but I can come to terms with them and … Continue reading 559. Thoughts on “Owning it”

558. Emotional Masochism: “Owning it” vs. Healing

Within the past month or so, I have had a number of interactions with people who were curious about emotional masochism and the possibility of incorporating it into their experiences, play, or dynamics.  A couple of the people were looking specifically at using it as a means to heal from past or accumulated psychological damage. … Continue reading 558. Emotional Masochism: “Owning it” vs. Healing

557. Thoughts on Degradation vs. Humiliation

A short while ago someone asked me for tips on how to humiliate a sub.  What began as a set of tips soon evolved into a 20,000+ word multi-part write up that had me delving to every aspect I could think of on the subject.  I thought about posting it here, but the response was … Continue reading 557. Thoughts on Degradation vs. Humiliation

553. The Evolving Narrative

I have pretty much given up on the idea of healing certain parts of my damage.  These are the parts that I have been able to integrate into my submission and I honestly find them... addictive to have to face them within the confines of my submission.  Facing the damage head on acts as fuel … Continue reading 553. The Evolving Narrative

538. Expanding Upon Thoughts on Shame as a Fetish

This is a follow up to post 537. Thoughts on Shame as a Fetish. Thank you everyone for the comments on 537.  I plan to respond to them tomorrow when my head is feeling clearer.  I had some talks about the content of that post and I wanted to elaborate on it now when the … Continue reading 538. Expanding Upon Thoughts on Shame as a Fetish

528. Thoughts on Submissive Male Shame and Emotional Masochism

Some days I wonder why I keep on blogging.  It's not that I have a reason to stop, it's that I find it harder to have a reason to continue.  In any case... A week ago I took part in a Femdom discussion munch that chose my topic of emotional sadism and masochism.   I had … Continue reading 528. Thoughts on Submissive Male Shame and Emotional Masochism

525. Reflections on my submission in the modern world

I apologize out of the gate for the rambling nature of this post.  I don't really know where I am going with it, I am just aware of a few thoughts that are trying to get out.  I'll do my best to make it readable and cohesive. The past few months in the local scene … Continue reading 525. Reflections on my submission in the modern world

522. Humiliation is an Extension of the Real World

The other day I was explaining to someone about how humiliation can affect submission and I used the phrase, "humiliation is an extension of the real world."  It took me about five seconds to realize how much truth there was in that statement. I usually assume that by the time someone has developed a strong … Continue reading 522. Humiliation is an Extension of the Real World

325. Late night thoughts when I should be sleeping

Every time I post a new story I feel very vulnerable while waiting for the responses to it.  Sometimes the validation (or rejection even) never happens and it just takes time for the feelings to fade away.  Other times it just takes one or two responses for me to realize that I did what I … Continue reading 325. Late night thoughts when I should be sleeping