Tag: humiliation

528. Thoughts on Submissive Male Shame and Emotional Masochism

Some days I wonder why I keep on blogging.  It's not that I have a reason to stop, it's that I find it harder to have a reason to continue.  In any case... A week ago I took part in a Femdom discussion munch that chose my topic of emotional sadism and masochism.   I had … Continue reading 528. Thoughts on Submissive Male Shame and Emotional Masochism

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525. Reflections on my submission in the modern world

I apologize out of the gate for the rambling nature of this post.  I don't really know where I am going with it, I am just aware of a few thoughts that are trying to get out.  I'll do my best to make it readable and cohesive. The past few months in the local scene … Continue reading 525. Reflections on my submission in the modern world

522. Humiliation is an Extension of the Real World

The other day I was explaining to someone about how humiliation can affect submission and I used the phrase, "humiliation is an extension of the real world."  It took me about five seconds to realize how much truth there was in that statement. I usually assume that by the time someone has developed a strong … Continue reading 522. Humiliation is an Extension of the Real World

325. Late night thoughts when I should be sleeping

Every time I post a new story I feel very vulnerable while waiting for the responses to it.  Sometimes the validation (or rejection even) never happens and it just takes time for the feelings to fade away.  Other times it just takes one or two responses for me to realize that I did what I … Continue reading 325. Late night thoughts when I should be sleeping

315. Selective Validation

I have no problem accepting myself as a submissive.  I don't really have any trouble accepting myself as a submissive male in a society that largely shuns them.  That being said, it is easy to rail against society as a whole.  It's easy to rally against prejudice and hate when when it's a crowd roaring … Continue reading 315. Selective Validation

288. Thoughts on Contexts and Embarrassment

A recent conversation with a blogging friend has made me realize just how obsessed I am with explaining myself.  I find myself constantly unable to share something without needing to link it to all parts involved.  By itself, it is too embarrassing and shameful for me to face.  By itself... out of context... what would … Continue reading 288. Thoughts on Contexts and Embarrassment

287. The Struggles of Emotional Masochism

I have to believe that emotional masochism is one of the most difficult things in BDSM to cope with, understand, and communicate about.  Trying to describe it often feels shameful.  This can be a challenge for those who don't understand it because it is a struggle to communicate.  Hell, a lot of emotional masochists suck … Continue reading 287. The Struggles of Emotional Masochism

254. An Intro To F/m – Part 7

A continuation of the series, disclaimers etc., target audience people who are more familiar with M/f, etc. blah blah blah.  My apologies if any of this stuff are repeats, etc. F/m does have a number of topics that are pretty much limited to an F/m (or M/m) context.  CBT is one of them for example, … Continue reading 254. An Intro To F/m – Part 7