I have stated in previous posts that the term slave in BDSM has really lost a lot of its meaning and is relatively undefinable in the vernacular of the 2018 kinky world. I have also written about being educated in the "Old Guard" definitions of slave and talked about the seriousness it rings in my … Continue reading 358. Thoughts on my Role/Label
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293. Thoughts on Submissive vs. Slave
Last week I wrote about submissive vs. bottom. This week I have decided to tackle the topic of submissives and slaves. Back when I entered the lifestyle, there was a pretty firm distinction between submissive and slave. The available resources back then were still heavily rooted in old guard definitions and my first Domme took … Continue reading 293. Thoughts on Submissive vs. Slave
168. Thoughts on Humiliation and Self
There are times when I hate that humiliation is such a strong gateway to bring me to my submissive mental space. There are times when I hate that this process turns me on. When I think about why I carry this frustration, it isn't because I dislike it. It is because I fear that it … Continue reading 168. Thoughts on Humiliation and Self