Tag: submissive

530. “A Positive Submissive Response”

Over the past few months I have had quite a few discussions while trying to explain how the mechanics of D/s tend to work in various environments, especially in regards to subs. What I have found is that as a whole, there is very little common understanding of what subs "get out of it" if … Continue reading 530. “A Positive Submissive Response”

528. Thoughts on Submissive Male Shame and Emotional Masochism

Some days I wonder why I keep on blogging.  It's not that I have a reason to stop, it's that I find it harder to have a reason to continue.  In any case... A week ago I took part in a Femdom discussion munch that chose my topic of emotional sadism and masochism.   I had … Continue reading 528. Thoughts on Submissive Male Shame and Emotional Masochism

526. Thoughts on Switches and the Submissive Male

A comment on my last post led to an exchange where I feel like I uncovered something relatively important.  I will try to keep this as neat and clean as possible. I've written a lot in the past about the struggles of the submissive male with self-acceptance and society's bias against them, even in the … Continue reading 526. Thoughts on Switches and the Submissive Male

523. Thoughts on Feeling Submissive vs. Being Dominated

So I've been writing and scrapping versions of this post for roughly three months now.  I've had a number of conversations about this topic over the past couple of months as well, but I have never been happy enough with the end result to publish it and they ended up on the trash heap.  Here … Continue reading 523. Thoughts on Feeling Submissive vs. Being Dominated

508. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Sub-Frenzy

I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. I. What is sub-frenzy? The term sub-frenzy has been around for decades, but in more recent years the definition has become rather incomplete.  … Continue reading 508. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Sub-Frenzy

497. Thoughts on Experience Levels on both sides of the slash

There is another topic that has been lurking around in my brain for the past month or two and is quite relevant with the mentoring that I have been doing this year that I mentioned in my last post. I haven't encountered too many available subs out there with a highly-refined and evolved sense of … Continue reading 497. Thoughts on Experience Levels on both sides of the slash

496. Wednesday Ramblings on subs and Dommes

I had originally planned on writing a follow-up post to my last post but after some deliberation and conversation with others I decided against it.  While the content of this post may be somewhat related, it is not what I had originally considered writing. This year has been a very busy one for me in … Continue reading 496. Wednesday Ramblings on subs and Dommes

491. More submissive mental space and swimming pools fun

Some recent talks have brought me back to thinking about submissive mental space and various other spaces and I wanted to write a little bit more about it now.  As I often do, I will be referring to submissive mental space as "subspace" in an attempt to take back a word that has had its … Continue reading 491. More submissive mental space and swimming pools fun