Tag: subspace

444. Thoughts on D/s and Life

For me, D/s is not in my present.  It is in my future.  With that in mind, I still see my life as being built around D/s.  I see the self that I portray here as my real self and the rest of my life as an act that I perform while I wait for … Continue reading 444. Thoughts on D/s and Life

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376. Thoughts on what submissive mental space is like

I recently had a conversation with a friend/reader that brought up the idea of writing another submissive male point of view erotica work.  The request that they had was that the protagonist would have a rich array of thoughts and emotions at work like Wanda in fs02, and less like fs's minimal thoughts portrayed in … Continue reading 376. Thoughts on what submissive mental space is like

357. Splitting Submissive Mental Spaces

I was asked some questions tonight that forced me to get more specific about submissive mental space than I had in a long time. These might be helpful if you are unfamiliar with this topic: Separating self and spaces How Submissive Mental Space Works Thoughts on Fostering Submissive Mental Space through Dynamics I will be … Continue reading 357. Splitting Submissive Mental Spaces

345. Born from Denial?

I have a friend that I met on kik a while back that I think is absolutely fascinating.  She is 2nd generation BDSM and was indoctrinated into the principles of the lifestyle in her mid-teens.  I don't plan on getting into any sort of moral debate or commentary about that.  BDSM was presented in a … Continue reading 345. Born from Denial?

335. Thoughts on Fostering Submissive Mental Space through Dynamics

This is sort of a follow-up to my post yesterday, Thoughts on Training. For ease and because I want to, I will be using "subspace" in place of submissive mental space. Subspace is one of those tricky concepts because I think that it's very difficult for people to spot it.  Eager and willing subs, especially … Continue reading 335. Thoughts on Fostering Submissive Mental Space through Dynamics

294. Thinking more about Submissive Mental Space

Submissive mental space (or subspace, as I prefer to refer to it), is one of my favorite topics to discuss.  I believe that it serves such an integral place in submission and the healthy maintenance of a D/s relationship, yet it gets talked about so infrequently as a whole.  I have asked the question of … Continue reading 294. Thinking more about Submissive Mental Space

260. Reflecting on my spaces

As I have recently come to accept that I do have a submissive little space I am starting to find where the dividing lines fall between my normal submissive mental space and my submissive little space. The submissive personas that surface within each of them are rather different.  The triggers that get them there are … Continue reading 260. Reflecting on my spaces

216. Service-Oriented Submissive Mental Space – The Other Side

Note: I am still writing with a fever.  I am hoping to remain coherent. In a post from yesterday I talked about how reaching a mindset of service-oriented submission and the calm it yields was a half-truth.  I handled it a bit ham-handedly and I thought it would be good to expand upon that statement.  … Continue reading 216. Service-Oriented Submissive Mental Space – The Other Side

213. Creating your own service-oriented submissive mental space

EDIT:  So I got sick this weekend and I've had a fever all day.  Apparently writing with a fever makes me sound like an arrogant douche bag... or at least that's my own personal impression of the last post or two that I made.  My apologies if either of them came off that way, my … Continue reading 213. Creating your own service-oriented submissive mental space