Tag: subspace

Submissive words of my heart

I feel my layers melt away.  I am exposed.  You see me to my core.  You know where to attach the strings and pull them.  I can hide nothing.  I would hide nothing.  You are my everything. I ache and long for your approval.  My body quivers under your touch.  You bring out the best … Continue reading Submissive words of my heart

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Self-Maintenance through self-induced submissive mental space

As I've mentioned that active D/s has been absent from my life for the past few years, I have found a means of coping with the ache of submissive withdrawls and sub-frenzy that I thought other people might find helpful. Self-maintenance can come in quite handy if the dynamics in your relationship wax and wane, … Continue reading Self-Maintenance through self-induced submissive mental space

Why isn’t there more writing about the mental aspects of D/s?

Why isn't there more writing about the mental aspects of D/s? I find this completely puzzling as there are often carefully crafted relationship dynamics in place with the goal of keeping a sub twisting in deep subspace and a Domme maintaining a heightened Domspace.  I find it fascinating how people manage to keep a sub … Continue reading Why isn’t there more writing about the mental aspects of D/s?

Click 2017 Part 2

I got asked privately to elaborate a bit more on what goes on internally when it comes to what I talked about in the post Revisiting Click. Basically, I believe that the differences between having a choice and no choice when it comes to obedience corresponds to different mental states and levels of subspace.  How … Continue reading Click 2017 Part 2