It has taken quite a while but I'm finally starting to crack the fundamental differences in point of view that has caused me quite a few communication difficulties over the years. The main difficulty seems to be with the view of submission. It is very common for me to read the view that submission should … Continue reading The Need for Mental Spaces
With the help of a friend I was finally able to channel a deep subspace the other day. It was the good kind of space... the kind that I write my fiction from and have been struggling to find for a few months now. Something jumped out at me from the experience and I have … Continue reading A Dilemma
Why isn't there more writing about the mental aspects of D/s? I find this completely puzzling as there are often carefully crafted relationship dynamics in place with the goal of keeping a sub twisting in deep subspace and a Domme maintaining a heightened Domspace. I find it fascinating how people manage to keep a sub … Continue reading Why isn’t there more writing about the mental aspects of D/s?
I got asked privately to elaborate a bit more on what goes on internally when it comes to what I talked about in the post Revisiting Click. Basically, I believe that the differences between having a choice and no choice when it comes to obedience corresponds to different mental states and levels of subspace. How … Continue reading Click 2017 Part 2