370. Instructions for Cross Platform Blog Following

I have been mentoring a few new people lately and found that there isn't a lot of familiarity with newer bloggers and cross-platform blog following.  Back in the day Blogger and WordPress would talk to each other and followers would show up regardless of where their account was based.  They severed that connection around 2014 …

369. Defying the Odds

I received some comments the other day regarding sympathy for the poor odds faced by submissive men when it comes to Femdom D/s dating and relationships.  While the odds are poor, I keep them in my mind but I try not to dwell on them too much in a negative way.  Just for curiosity's sake …

368. I started a Fetlife group for Bloggers

So apparently my contemplating lasted about 10 minutes and I went ahead and made one. Here is the group: https://fetlife.com/groups/168330

367. Contemplating starting a Fetlife group…

I am debating starting a Fetlife group for kink bloggers.  I'm not really sure why, but I have been doing more correspondence through Fet and feel like I would rather have something else to do while I am there, seeing as the majority of groups that I follow are either too busy to be welcoming …

366. Thoughts on Love in D/s

I had two encounters today that got my brain swirling on this subject for the first time in a while.  Sometimes I feel like it's too easy to forget that there are fundamentally different views when the people you surround yourself tend to share yours. One of the two encounters was reading someone's statement that …

365. Thoughts on Mythical Creatures

The term unicorn is the most common mythical creature in the BDSM realm.  While it can have a number of meanings, the word unicorn unicorn is often used to describe a submissive that is unselfish, thoughtful, devoted, obedient, and has an interesting personality.  Another popular use is to describe a service-oriented submissive that is willing …

364. Alone in a Crowd

I had been a bit bummed that I haven't had much on my mind that I felt like writing about lately.  Today I found something and I have to say that I would rather not have something to write about. "Alone in a crowd."  People who experience this feeling know exactly what I'm talking about.  …

363. More “dominate” thoughts

A theory that I have been floating around in my head is the possibility that the rampant misuse of "dominate" has to do with people's auto-correct on phones and/or spellcheck on PC's. Dominant currently does not exist as a noun in most dictionaries. The spellcheck on my browser constantly flags me when I use submissive …

362. Thoughts on Confidence and Roles

The past year or two has been one of the more interesting times in my D/s life.  This may seem strange since there has been nothing going on with D/s in my "real life" for quite a while now.  What separates this period of my life is the friends that I have made online.  The …

361. Thoughts on Oral Sex

I was asked a question by a Domme friend today about whether or not I thought fellatio was a submissive act or not.  She had read a blog from a newer Domme that is ecstatic at the prospect of never having to do it again and felt that giving fellatio was submissive.  I was asked …