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I have recently been helping a new Domme screen profiles. I also did some sleuthing in her area to see if there were any promising subs. While collarspace is dying, there are still some people logging in and it's much easier to search/sort there than it is on fetlife. It has been a while since … Continue reading 473. Thoughts on Jaded subs and Arrogant subs
Note: This is part of a series of posts. Other related posts: 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2 I received some very good comments on Part 2 from a number of other bloggers. I realized that answering them thoroughly would basically take at least a posts's worth … Continue reading 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3
Note: This is part of a series of posts. Other related posts: 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3 This is sort of a continuation of my last post. I had originally planned to combine these topics but I felt they should be split so as not get … Continue reading 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2
Note: This ended up being part of a series of posts. Other related posts: 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3 I have been having some conversations lately with a number of subs and a couple of topics keep popping up. This post will include a lot of … Continue reading 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1
I have had the pleasure of interacting with some very new Dommes and switches this past week and this topic has popped up a couple of times so I thought it would be good to blog about it. Some of this will be rehash of earlier posts but I am trying to combine the concepts … Continue reading 465. Thoughts on the Darkness in male subs
Since I just did a couple of posts on red flags, I thought it would only be fair for me to share my own profile. I took a 3.5 year break from the online kink world. When I returned and started a Fetlife account, this was the first profile I posted. I should note that … Continue reading 379. My Own sub Profile
Well, I took all of 5 minutes before someone asked me to expand upon the ways people can ruin their profile from my last post. They were: Username choice. Primary profile pic choice (and to a lesser extent, secondaries). Self-portrayal in your written profile. Your activity history (loves, comments, posts, etc.). The people you choose … Continue reading 378. By Request: Ways to potentially ruin your submissive male profile
I'm really going to go out of my way to keep this from spiraling into a rant. That probably means it will be significantly shorter than my original attempt at this. In the past week or so a newer Domme friend of mine has asked me to help screen through the subs that are writing … Continue reading 377. Thoughts on submissive male profiles
It was roughly seven years ago that Lady Grey at Woman in Control made a post called "The Big Takeaway." Unfortunately this post was lost when she deleted a number of her early posts but some conversations that I have had recently with some newer Dommes got me thinking about it once again and I … Continue reading 375. Thoughts on “The Big Takeaway”
In the past week I have had four conversations with different people that seem to all sort of link back to a common theme. While they were on various topics, the core of the discussion centered around the belief in "submission as a gift" and how that idea fails in a lot of situations. I … Continue reading 374. Submission as a Privilege
