Tag: submissive

554. Analyzing the Multiple-Domme Fantasy

Note: A lot of this will be rehashed topics from the past year but it is on my mind. A Domme friend of mine recently asked me why her sub has this recurring fantasy about being exposed to, humiliated in front of, and used by a group of (presumably dominant) women.  I find this topic … Continue reading 554. Analyzing the Multiple-Domme Fantasy

553. The Evolving Narrative

I have pretty much given up on the idea of healing certain parts of my damage.  These are the parts that I have been able to integrate into my submission and I honestly find them... addictive to have to face them within the confines of my submission.  Facing the damage head on acts as fuel … Continue reading 553. The Evolving Narrative

552. Failing to Balance the Two Spaces Part 2

I lost my train of thought while writing Post 551 and never managed to circle back in the way that I had hoped. Over the years I have become well aware of the tug of war between my mental spaces that encompass my service submission and my emotional masochism.  There is no real balance.  Neglect … Continue reading 552. Failing to Balance the Two Spaces Part 2

551. Failing to Balance the Two Spaces

Something that I have been struggling with lately is the battle between my two submissive mental spaces. There is my service-side. There is my emotional masochist side. Each of these spaces has a distinctly different feel to them and an entirely separate set of preferences, ideals, and philosophies that govern them. My service side wants … Continue reading 551. Failing to Balance the Two Spaces

545. Submissive Men: Too Many and Too Few

Over the years I have written numerous times about how submissive men vastly outnumber dominant women.  Over the years I have also read many accounts of dominant women stating that there are a shortage of submissive men. Which one of these views is correct?   Both. It is possible for both to be true based upon … Continue reading 545. Submissive Men: Too Many and Too Few

532. A sub’s thoughts on Domme Profiles

Last year I did a lot of writing about male sub profiles, writing introductory messages, and the like.  With the ramp up in meeting people in person at social events and inevitably reading the profiles of the people I am meeting another related topic has come to mind lately. Now that I think about it, … Continue reading 532. A sub’s thoughts on Domme Profiles