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Some comments on a couple of recent posts made me realize that it has been a while that I have really talked much at all about my submission and the dynamics that I desire. There are definitely reasons that I hide parts of myself both while blogging and in my local BDSM community. I don't … Continue reading 536. What I am (2019)
Last year I did a lot of writing about male sub profiles, writing introductory messages, and the like. With the ramp up in meeting people in person at social events and inevitably reading the profiles of the people I am meeting another related topic has come to mind lately. Now that I think about it, … Continue reading 532. A sub’s thoughts on Domme Profiles
Over the past few months I have had quite a few discussions while trying to explain how the mechanics of D/s tend to work in various environments, especially in regards to subs. What I have found is that as a whole, there is very little common understanding of what subs "get out of it" if … Continue reading 530. “A Positive Submissive Response”
Some days I wonder why I keep on blogging. It's not that I have a reason to stop, it's that I find it harder to have a reason to continue. In any case... A week ago I took part in a Femdom discussion munch that chose my topic of emotional sadism and masochism. I had … Continue reading 528. Thoughts on Submissive Male Shame and Emotional Masochism
A comment on my last post led to an exchange where I feel like I uncovered something relatively important. I will try to keep this as neat and clean as possible. I've written a lot in the past about the struggles of the submissive male with self-acceptance and society's bias against them, even in the … Continue reading 526. Thoughts on Switches and the Submissive Male
So I've been writing and scrapping versions of this post for roughly three months now. I've had a number of conversations about this topic over the past couple of months as well, but I have never been happy enough with the end result to publish it and they ended up on the trash heap. Here … Continue reading 523. Thoughts on Feeling Submissive vs. Being Dominated
Her: "You know, all the other subs are jealous of you, right?" Me: "What? Who? What? Jealous of what?" Her: "All of the male subs. They are all jealous of you." Me: "What? Jealous of what?" Her: "That Dommes talk to you and pay attention to what you have to say. I can't believe you … Continue reading 518. Recent Community Experiences
Over the past few weeks, and especially the past few days, I have had some recent discussions about submission and a recurring theme has continued to pop up: the idea of "broken" subs. Over the course of these discussions I found myself committing many words to paper that had only existed in my head up … Continue reading 515. Thoughts on “broken” subs
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. I. What is sub-frenzy? The term sub-frenzy has been around for decades, but in more recent years the definition has become rather incomplete. … Continue reading 508. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Sub-Frenzy
There is another topic that has been lurking around in my brain for the past month or two and is quite relevant with the mentoring that I have been doing this year that I mentioned in my last post. I haven't encountered too many available subs out there with a highly-refined and evolved sense of … Continue reading 497. Thoughts on Experience Levels on both sides of the slash
