18+ NSFW. A place for Femdom ideas, D/s theory, and random thoughts
I have been trying to write some posts lately but nothing seems to be coming out how I want it to (I have 9 unfinished drafts that have derailed). This is usually a sign of just not being in the writing mood, but I find myself wanting to write. I have had a number of … Continue reading 484. Feeling Blocked
For as many times as people have told me that I am an insightful person, there are many ways where I am blind. Much of this blindness is self-inflicted. I can remember back to my early teens thinking that life would happen for me like it did for others. I would think a girl is … Continue reading 483. Blindness
Very recently I hurt someone dear to me. Badly. Life-changing bad. A betrayal of all that I value the most. It's something I can't undo. It was a little over a month ago that I made some choices. It was only recently that I faced those choices and accepted the responsibility for them. The end … Continue reading 482. Spiraling
I thought I should probably check in with a post after receiving a number of messages from some of my readers. I have had zero desire to write lately (each attempt has been scrapped before it was finished). I'm not really sure why, as when I am in the mode to write, pounding out 1-4 … Continue reading 481. October Update
Lately a topic has come to my attention that I find rather interesting. I know that this is something I have written about in the past but since it is fresh on my mind I will revisit it. It is common knowledge that subs will undergo cravings. Unless they are "fed," they will slowly slide … Continue reading 480. The Cycle Loop of Feeding Dominance and submission
This post is a bit of a follow up to my last post, #478. While I haven't been keeping up on blog reading like I historically have, I have noticed that a number of bloggers have been tackling the topic of emotional masochism (and often back-linking to me, which makes me happy). I see this … Continue reading 479. The Complicated Gray Area of Emotional Masochism
I'm not quite sure where this post is going to go, but this is a conversation that has come up a couple of times with both blogging friends and some of the new friends I have made in the local community. Often when I get asked what my interests are in kink communities, my primary … Continue reading 478. Thoughts on D/s vs. BDSM
I have had something repeat at the munches that I have attended, and that is having attention called to my blog (it is linked from my fetlife profile). For some reason this always causes an immediate bout of blushing and shyness and I am terrified to talk about it. This is something I have been … Continue reading 477. Thoughts about my Blog and meeting people
Seeing as it has been about a month since my last post, I figure that I should make a post. Quite a bit has been happening lately. I have been working myself to exhaustion. For the past month I have averaged working 58 hours a week and it will likely maintain a pace similar to … Continue reading 476. August Update
Today was my 2-year anniversary here on WordPress. I just wanted to say thank you to the people who take the time to read, like, and comment here. I'm on a small hiatus from posting, but I'm sure that having something worth writing about will manage to come up sooner rather than later. Take care.
