18+ NSFW. A place for Femdom ideas, D/s theory, and random thoughts
Although I haven't been writing, I have still been attending munches for local BDSM groups (we have tons). I have to say that a lingering note of interest to me is the absence of D/s. It isn't taught. It isn't talked about. It is rarely practiced. In many ways, it is treated as if D/s … Continue reading 514. More Thoughts on D/s in the BDSM Community
I figured it was about time to make a check in post. I am still here. I still plan to blog more. I actually have had quite a bit going on lately, but I haven't had a compelling way of sharing it or talking about it to make it feel worth writing about it. I … Continue reading 513. Checking in
When writing my last post I found myself struggling to "complete the thought" of the post while retaining the same train of thought I held when I began writing it. As the words spiraled off it was a firm signal to me that my SAD (seasonal affective disorder) is in full swing. I've been feeling … Continue reading 512. Seasonal Depression 2019 Edition
I've been struggling with ideas on what to write about lately. Earlier today I realized that I had unearthed some pretty consistent themes while writing my Discussion Group posts. While attempting to write something coherent I lost my train of thought and fizzled out. I still find some of this to be interesting so I … Continue reading 511. Moderately scattered thoughts on an oddity within the F/m community
A couple of local Dommes I am helping mentor are actively seeking subs but they have been continuously bombarded with generic or poor messages from prospective subs. I felt like writing today, so here comes a post on the subject. Having been in the position of writing a first message to a Domme, I understand … Continue reading 510. Tips on Writing an Introductory Message to a Domme
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a Femdom discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. Note: For the sake of ease, I will be using kink and fetish interchangeably rather than writing kink/fetish in every appropriate spot. … Continue reading 509. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Kink Shaming, Kink Desirability, and how they fit into Femdom
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. I. What is sub-frenzy? The term sub-frenzy has been around for decades, but in more recent years the definition has become rather incomplete. … Continue reading 508. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Sub-Frenzy
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a Femdom discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. Note: my background in the Femdom arena only goes back to the mid-1990s. Much of the "early internet" was still available at … Continue reading 507. Discussion Topic Write-Up: A Brief History of FLR and its place in and out of BDSM
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. I. Introduction I first wrote about meta-consent back in 2011. As of then, to the best of my knowledge, it had not been … Continue reading 506. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Meta-Consent
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a Femdom discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. As this group involves only male submissives I am limiting this post to the topic of male chastity, which is a slightly … Continue reading 505. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Enforced Male Chastity
