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Today was my 2-year anniversary here on WordPress. I just wanted to say thank you to the people who take the time to read, like, and comment here. I'm on a small hiatus from posting, but I'm sure that having something worth writing about will manage to come up sooner rather than later. Take care.
One of the things that impresses me the most is when a dominant maintains an environment full of dynamics that constantly serve as fuel for their dominance and the sub's submission. This takes quite a bit of work to create such an environment and a continuous effort to keep it rolling. To the dominants that … Continue reading 474. Thoughts on the Psychology of Dynamics
I have recently been helping a new Domme screen profiles. I also did some sleuthing in her area to see if there were any promising subs. While collarspace is dying, there are still some people logging in and it's much easier to search/sort there than it is on fetlife. It has been a while since … Continue reading 473. Thoughts on Jaded subs and Arrogant subs
It's sort of ironic that I had this blog post title already saved as a draft I was intending to write about when a couple of minutes ago a Domme friend messaged me about receiving some negative comments from someone that completely relates to this topic. I was originally planning on writing this from a … Continue reading 472. Thoughts on Sadism vs. Malice
Posts 468, 469, and 470 dealt with the light and dark sides of submission. As I have been helping to mentor a few new doms I thought it might be helpful to explore the other side of things. For ease, I will be using "dom" to signify dominant the noun/person/role and dominant for the adjective. … Continue reading 471. Dominance and the Light/Dark Spectrum
Note: This is part of a series of posts. Other related posts: 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2 I received some very good comments on Part 2 from a number of other bloggers. I realized that answering them thoroughly would basically take at least a posts's worth … Continue reading 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3
Note: This is part of a series of posts. Other related posts: 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3 This is sort of a continuation of my last post. I had originally planned to combine these topics but I felt they should be split so as not get … Continue reading 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2
Note: This ended up being part of a series of posts. Other related posts: 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3 I have been having some conversations lately with a number of subs and a couple of topics keep popping up. This post will include a lot of … Continue reading 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1
Porn Girl was kind enough to ask me some questions in the comments of my last post. Here goes. 1) When was the last time you “made love”, if ever? Sometime in the fall of 2012. It was before T had hip surgery. We were intimate one more time after that where she gave me … Continue reading 467. Q&A from Porn Girl
I know that I haven't posted much lately. Things are going pretty well. Most of what I blog about is inspired by conversations and interactions with others. I had a lull of that for a few weeks and so there really wasn't a lot on my mind to write about. After about three weeks of … Continue reading 466. A Personal Update and A Request
