540. Today’s Thoughts on Service Submission

So I am attending a Femdom discussion munch tonight on service.  I've written a lot about this in the past and at some point I may do a write-up/Guide, but for now, I just wanted to write something brief-ish to gather my thoughts for the discussion tonight. In BDSM communities, service submission often falls through …

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539. BDSM Drama is Lame

A few of us that are friends locally have decided to create our own Femdom BDSM group.  It's kind of exciting and I have high hopes for it.  Our first munch is scheduled for early October. The events leading up to said group are a bit less exciting.  There are already two other existing Femdom …

538. Expanding Upon Thoughts on Shame as a Fetish

This is a follow up to post 537. Thoughts on Shame as a Fetish. Thank you everyone for the comments on 537.  I plan to respond to them tomorrow when my head is feeling clearer.  I had some talks about the content of that post and I wanted to elaborate on it now when the …

537. Thoughts on Shame as a Fetish

I'm back from a bit of a break.  I had some health concerns pop up that were causing an immense amount of stress but are starting to get resolved. Over the past few weeks it has become apparent that I really have made a lot of friends in the kink community here (and I also …

536. What I am (2019)

Some comments on a couple of recent posts made me realize that it has been a while that I have really talked much at all about my submission and the dynamics that I desire.  There are definitely reasons that I hide parts of myself both while blogging and in my local BDSM community.  I don't …

535. Midnight Thoughts on 08/19/19

Lately blogging has felt a bit more like a chore than a joy or an outlet. I can tell by the topics that I have been writing about and the tone/voice that I have been writing with, just how far out of my element I have been over the past few months.  It seems that …

534. Absolute Consent

As things go in the ever-evolving nature of BDSM terminology, it appears that there has been yet another change.  There is a Fetlife group I have been following for years that tends to be the "cutting edge" discussion on this topic and their name seems to change every couple of years. Consensual Non-Consent -> Meta-Consent …

533. BDSM: WOPE vs. WIPE

WOPE and WIPE were a couple of acronyms that I created in 531. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Some Major Style Differences within BDSM. What they mean: WOPE = BDSM WithOut Power Exchange WIPE = BDSM WIth power Exchange From my own perspective I consider this to be one of the largest differences between the styles of …

532. A sub’s thoughts on Domme Profiles

Last year I did a lot of writing about male sub profiles, writing introductory messages, and the like.  With the ramp up in meeting people in person at social events and inevitably reading the profiles of the people I am meeting another related topic has come to mind lately. Now that I think about it, …

531. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Some Major Style Differences within BDSM

I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. As this is designed for a Femdom discussion group, it may lean more heavily towards the F/m end of the spectrum although I …