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Lately a topic has come to my attention that I find rather interesting. I know that this is something I have written about in the past but since it is fresh on my mind I will revisit it. It is common knowledge that subs will undergo cravings. Unless they are "fed," they will slowly slide … Continue reading 480. The Cycle Loop of Feeding Dominance and submission
This post is a bit of a follow up to my last post, #478. While I haven't been keeping up on blog reading like I historically have, I have noticed that a number of bloggers have been tackling the topic of emotional masochism (and often back-linking to me, which makes me happy). I see this … Continue reading 479. The Complicated Gray Area of Emotional Masochism
I'm not quite sure where this post is going to go, but this is a conversation that has come up a couple of times with both blogging friends and some of the new friends I have made in the local community. Often when I get asked what my interests are in kink communities, my primary … Continue reading 478. Thoughts on D/s vs. BDSM
I have had something repeat at the munches that I have attended, and that is having attention called to my blog (it is linked from my fetlife profile). For some reason this always causes an immediate bout of blushing and shyness and I am terrified to talk about it. This is something I have been … Continue reading 477. Thoughts about my Blog and meeting people
Seeing as it has been about a month since my last post, I figure that I should make a post. Quite a bit has been happening lately. I have been working myself to exhaustion. For the past month I have averaged working 58 hours a week and it will likely maintain a pace similar to … Continue reading 476. August Update
Today was my 2-year anniversary here on WordPress. I just wanted to say thank you to the people who take the time to read, like, and comment here. I'm on a small hiatus from posting, but I'm sure that having something worth writing about will manage to come up sooner rather than later. Take care.
One of the things that impresses me the most is when a dominant maintains an environment full of dynamics that constantly serve as fuel for their dominance and the sub's submission. This takes quite a bit of work to create such an environment and a continuous effort to keep it rolling. To the dominants that … Continue reading 474. Thoughts on the Psychology of Dynamics
I have recently been helping a new Domme screen profiles. I also did some sleuthing in her area to see if there were any promising subs. While collarspace is dying, there are still some people logging in and it's much easier to search/sort there than it is on fetlife. It has been a while since … Continue reading 473. Thoughts on Jaded subs and Arrogant subs
It's sort of ironic that I had this blog post title already saved as a draft I was intending to write about when a couple of minutes ago a Domme friend messaged me about receiving some negative comments from someone that completely relates to this topic. I was originally planning on writing this from a … Continue reading 472. Thoughts on Sadism vs. Malice
Posts 468, 469, and 470 dealt with the light and dark sides of submission. As I have been helping to mentor a few new doms I thought it might be helpful to explore the other side of things. For ease, I will be using "dom" to signify dominant the noun/person/role and dominant for the adjective. … Continue reading 471. Dominance and the Light/Dark Spectrum
