480. The Cycle Loop of Feeding Dominance and submission

Lately a topic has come to my attention that I find rather interesting.  I know that this is something I have written about in the past but since it is fresh on my mind I will revisit it. It is common knowledge that subs will undergo cravings.  Unless they are "fed," they will slowly slide …

479. The Complicated Gray Area of Emotional Masochism

This post is a bit of a follow up to my last post, #478. While I haven't been keeping up on blog reading like I historically have, I have noticed that a number of bloggers have been tackling the topic of emotional masochism (and often back-linking to me, which makes me happy).   I see this …

478. Thoughts on D/s vs. BDSM

I'm not quite sure where this post is going to go, but this is a conversation that has come up a couple of times with both blogging friends and some of the new friends I have made in the local community. Often when I get asked what my interests are in kink communities, my primary …

477. Thoughts about my Blog and meeting people

I have had something repeat at the munches that I have attended, and that is having attention called to my blog (it is linked from my fetlife profile).  For some reason this always causes an immediate bout of blushing and shyness and I am terrified to talk about it.  This is something I have been …

476. August Update

Seeing as it has been about a month since my last post, I figure that I should make a post. Quite a bit has been happening lately.  I have been working myself to exhaustion.  For the past month I have averaged working 58 hours a week and it will likely maintain a pace similar to …