518. Recent Community Experiences

Her: "You know, all the other subs are jealous of you, right?" Me: "What?  Who?  What?  Jealous of what?" Her: "All of the male subs.  They are all jealous of you." Me: "What?  Jealous of what?" Her: "That Dommes talk to you and pay attention to what you have to say.  I can't believe you …

517. Crafting BDSM Gear

It seems that my self-induced mania has kicked in and cleared my brain clouds. Over the past few months I have started crafting BDSM-Gear.  I'm still a novice and have quite a bit to learn, but I'm really enjoying coming up with different designs for items that don't exist anywhere else. I wrote about one …

516. Thoughts on unpopular fetishes

This is another topic I had planned to write about during my last hiatus but never got around to it. For the purpose of this post I will be using the term "fetish" to mean a non-standard (aka non-sexual) act, object, or body part that elicits a sexual response.  For me to classify something as …

515. Thoughts on “broken” subs

Over the past few weeks, and especially the past few days, I have had some recent discussions about submission and a recurring theme has continued to pop up: the idea of "broken" subs.  Over the course of these discussions I found myself committing many words to paper that had only existed in my head up …