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For the duration of my blogging "career," I have encouraged subs to try to become more service-oriented. To me, service-oriented submission is to find fulfillment in their submission in the ways that benefit a Domme and provide enhancements to her life and lifestyle. When I first got started as a sub, I was more of … Continue reading 521. Thoughts on Service and Servitude
Her: "You know, all the other subs are jealous of you, right?" Me: "What? Who? What? Jealous of what?" Her: "All of the male subs. They are all jealous of you." Me: "What? Jealous of what?" Her: "That Dommes talk to you and pay attention to what you have to say. I can't believe you … Continue reading 518. Recent Community Experiences
I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. As this is designed for a Femdom discussion group, it may lean more heavily towards the F/m end of the spectrum although I … Continue reading 502. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Mental Spaces in BDSM v. 1.0 (12/20/2018)
Sweetgirl's latest post talked about an exercise that I frequently encourage for subs. It is something that I encouraged her to do early on and it is something that I recommend for subs that are newer or are in relationships and looking to take D/s to the next level. I thought that it would be … Continue reading 494. Explaining “The Assignment”
Some recent talks have brought me back to thinking about submissive mental space and various other spaces and I wanted to write a little bit more about it now. As I often do, I will be referring to submissive mental space as "subspace" in an attempt to take back a word that has had its … Continue reading 491. More submissive mental space and swimming pools fun
The history of my life has been one where I have never felt desirable nor attractive. I have always been different. Different in such a way that the difference would be the characteristic that stood out the most. Different was bad. I would have to be twice as good to be considered half as good. … Continue reading 489. Thoughts upon me, the submissive
Lately a topic has come to my attention that I find rather interesting. I know that this is something I have written about in the past but since it is fresh on my mind I will revisit it. It is common knowledge that subs will undergo cravings. Unless they are "fed," they will slowly slide … Continue reading 480. The Cycle Loop of Feeding Dominance and submission
I'm not quite sure where this post is going to go, but this is a conversation that has come up a couple of times with both blogging friends and some of the new friends I have made in the local community. Often when I get asked what my interests are in kink communities, my primary … Continue reading 478. Thoughts on D/s vs. BDSM
Note: This is part of a series of posts. Other related posts: 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2 I received some very good comments on Part 2 from a number of other bloggers. I realized that answering them thoroughly would basically take at least a posts's worth … Continue reading 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3
Note: This is part of a series of posts. Other related posts: 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3 This is sort of a continuation of my last post. I had originally planned to combine these topics but I felt they should be split so as not get … Continue reading 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2
