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Note: This is part of a series of posts. Other related posts: 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2 I received some very good comments on Part 2 from a number of other bloggers. I realized that answering them thoroughly would basically take at least a posts's worth … Continue reading 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3
Note: This is part of a series of posts. Other related posts: 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3 This is sort of a continuation of my last post. I had originally planned to combine these topics but I felt they should be split so as not get … Continue reading 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2
Note: This ended up being part of a series of posts. Other related posts: 469. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 2 470. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 3 I have been having some conversations lately with a number of subs and a couple of topics keep popping up. This post will include a lot of … Continue reading 468. Sub, Submissive, and Submission Part 1
My post on extreme fantasy had me thinking today about why I get bothered by critical responses to certain parts of myself and my submission. Should I have thicker skin and be able to shrug off negativity? While pondering this question over lunch I realized that the answer is a lot more complicated than I … Continue reading 442. Thoughts on Thick Skin
I have had a draft rattling around for a couple of weeks now in regards to this topic but it wasn't rounding out but I did want to write about it so I am starting it over. There is a line from the novel Exit to Eden that was a recurring quote throughout the story: … Continue reading 407. Thoughts on D/s Systems vs. People
It was roughly seven years ago that Lady Grey at Woman in Control made a post called "The Big Takeaway." Unfortunately this post was lost when she deleted a number of her early posts but some conversations that I have had recently with some newer Dommes got me thinking about it once again and I … Continue reading 375. Thoughts on “The Big Takeaway”
In the past week I have had four conversations with different people that seem to all sort of link back to a common theme. While they were on various topics, the core of the discussion centered around the belief in "submission as a gift" and how that idea fails in a lot of situations. I … Continue reading 374. Submission as a Privilege
The BDSM teaching group I am a part of gave out an assignment a week ago or so. The assignment was to make a list of what you need from your partner in D/s. If you were a sub, what do you need from a dominant? If you were a dominant, what do you need … Continue reading 360. D/s Needs
I have stated in previous posts that the term slave in BDSM has really lost a lot of its meaning and is relatively undefinable in the vernacular of the 2018 kinky world. I have also written about being educated in the "Old Guard" definitions of slave and talked about the seriousness it rings in my … Continue reading 358. Thoughts on my Role/Label
I was asked some questions tonight that forced me to get more specific about submissive mental space than I had in a long time. These might be helpful if you are unfamiliar with this topic: Separating self and spaces How Submissive Mental Space Works Thoughts on Fostering Submissive Mental Space through Dynamics I will be … Continue reading 357. Splitting Submissive Mental Spaces
