519. Thoughts on the existence of the dark Domme

This post has been due for a while now. Over the past 4 years or so, I had a the sense that my style of submission was on the verge of extinction.  This wasn't because of a shortage of subs that submit in the way that I do, but more so because of a shift …

504. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Emotional Masochism and Sadism

I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts.   I should note that this post wasn't really part of my plan for discussion topics but I plan to reference these topics in …

373. Balancing Love and Cruelty

This is sort of a spinoff of a post that I decided to delete without publishing it.  As a reader that doesn't really tell you anything, but here goes... One of the most difficult things to convey to people is the desire for both intense love and intense cruelty.  I find it incredibly common for …

309. Why sadists fascinate me

Working on the third arc of fs02 has reminded me of something.  I am absolutely fascinated by sadistic women.  It's not that sadism fascinates me, I accept that it exists along with masochism. What intrigues me are the people that acknowledge that they are sadists.  I'm probably going to struggle expressing the root of this …