592. Mitigating Risk with Emotional Sadism and Masochism

I was recently asked what I do to mitigate potential risks when it comes to ES/EM. While I have written a ton on ES/EM sometimes including what I believe the parameters of doing it safely are, I realized that I don't think I have written at great length with this as the focus. It is …

591. Thoughts on Enforced Chastity (2023)

As my submissive and emotional masochism narratives have continued to evolve, my thoughts on chastity have as well. I can remember the early days of my journey, the idea of being locked in chastity was mind-blowing. I could envision release and subsequent pleasure being used as the carrot to encourage obedience and good behavior. I …

590. The “Narrative” of submissive mental space and emotional masochism

While I haven't been posting lately, I have continued educating, mentoring, and helping others within my local community on a number of BDSM topics and continued advancing my understanding and theories relating to various topics. For those who are familiar with my guides and terminology, I've begun using the term "narrative" to describe the system …

589. A personal summary update 2023

I have been struggling badly with my mental health since late-2019. Along that journey I have learned that I had un-diagnosed PTSD and cPTSD. I have gone through the gauntlet of therapy, medications, and experimental depression treatments. I am still unwell. In many ways, I'm worse now than I was back then. I've struggled like …