Tag: kink

368. I started a Fetlife group for Bloggers

So apparently my contemplating lasted about 10 minutes and I went ahead and made one. Here is the group: https://fetlife.com/groups/168330


327. Thoughts on Kink Formation: How do we become what we are?

Notyouraveragegirl and SaydistGirl both had some follow up questions in the comments on my post Thoughts on Life-Shaping Events and D/s.  I wanted to address it a bit more here. I believe that we are, by and large, a mixture of nature and nurture.  Our genetic disposition and base brain instincts are responsible for some.  … Continue reading 327. Thoughts on Kink Formation: How do we become what we are?

261. Thoughts on Kink vs. Submission

I received a comment on my last post that has inspired me to write another post (which made me very happy).  The post that I am about to write is not meant to detract from the views shared, it is merely something that set off a chain reaction of thoughts that I will spew onto … Continue reading 261. Thoughts on Kink vs. Submission

193. Thoughts on Popular Opinion

A handful of my recent posts were heavily rooted in Popular Opinion.  While I was about to start another post on a different subject, I realized that there isn't much discussion about Popular Opinion in kink.  You will find lots of rants about it, but rarely is it just talked about. I think there are … Continue reading 193. Thoughts on Popular Opinion

174. Symbolism vs. Fetish

Quite honestly over the past couple of weeks I think I have had more fun blogging than I have had in years.  I consider the verb, blogging to encompass writing blog posts, reading blog posts, leaving comments on other blogs, and responding to comments.  It has been at least 5 years since I have felt … Continue reading 174. Symbolism vs. Fetish

163. An exercise in humility part 2

I wanted to give a thank you to Ms Dixie and Nora for their comments on the first post.  I'm feeling vulnerable, exposed, and submissive at the moment.  Which seems like a prime time to delve deeper into that which I fear to show.  The positive and playful responses make this easier to feel like … Continue reading 163. An exercise in humility part 2

161. Kinks, Fetishes, and D/s

This past week I had someone ask me some questions about fetishes and it got me thinking quite a bit on the subject. This also seems to flow with some of the things I have written about over the past few days. While there are those in the lifestyle that would deny the sexual nature … Continue reading 161. Kinks, Fetishes, and D/s

116. Compatibility Concept: Giving and Receiving

I have written about this idea a lot in the past on my Blogger blog but I don't think I have made a post on it while here on WordPress. I know when it comes to courting in kink-related relationships a lot of people tend to look for kink-overlap as one of the more important … Continue reading 116. Compatibility Concept: Giving and Receiving

106. Open-mindedness and Understanding

Recently I've read a slew of blog posts about people encouraging open-mindedness when it comes to kink-related topics because of the ongoing trend of closed-mindedness that frequently plagues BDSM communities.  This post isn't targeted at any one of those bloggers, mostly just some thoughts in general that have been inspired by thinking about this topic. … Continue reading 106. Open-mindedness and Understanding

14. A quick D/s fantasy: Breakfast

Author's notes: So here's a little fiction I wrote for someone yesterday to try to illustrate the power of D/s dynamics and how they can turn an ordinary every day activity into something erotic.  I specifically left out any references to the sub's arousal, so as you read feel free to insert them in your … Continue reading 14. A quick D/s fantasy: Breakfast