Tag: kink

516. Thoughts on unpopular fetishes

This is another topic I had planned to write about during my last hiatus but never got around to it. For the purpose of this post I will be using the term "fetish" to mean a non-standard (aka non-sexual) act, object, or body part that elicits a sexual response.  For me to classify something as … Continue reading 516. Thoughts on unpopular fetishes

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509. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Kink Shaming, Kink Desirability, and how they fit into Femdom

I am writing this from the standpoint of introducing these ideas and concepts as part of a Femdom discussion group and may include ideas and concepts that I have discussed in earlier posts. Note: For the sake of ease, I will be using kink and fetish interchangeably rather than writing kink/fetish in every appropriate spot. … Continue reading 509. Discussion Topic Write-Up: Kink Shaming, Kink Desirability, and how they fit into Femdom

327. Thoughts on Kink Formation: How do we become what we are?

Notyouraveragegirl and SaydistGirl both had some follow up questions in the comments on my post Thoughts on Life-Shaping Events and D/s.  I wanted to address it a bit more here. I believe that we are, by and large, a mixture of nature and nurture.  Our genetic disposition and base brain instincts are responsible for some.  … Continue reading 327. Thoughts on Kink Formation: How do we become what we are?

261. Thoughts on Kink vs. Submission

I received a comment on my last post that has inspired me to write another post (which made me very happy).  The post that I am about to write is not meant to detract from the views shared, it is merely something that set off a chain reaction of thoughts that I will spew onto … Continue reading 261. Thoughts on Kink vs. Submission

193. Thoughts on Popular Opinion

A handful of my recent posts were heavily rooted in Popular Opinion.  While I was about to start another post on a different subject, I realized that there isn't much discussion about Popular Opinion in kink.  You will find lots of rants about it, but rarely is it just talked about. I think there are … Continue reading 193. Thoughts on Popular Opinion

163. An exercise in humility part 2

I wanted to give a thank you to Ms Dixie and Nora for their comments on the first post.  I'm feeling vulnerable, exposed, and submissive at the moment.  Which seems like a prime time to delve deeper into that which I fear to show.  The positive and playful responses make this easier to feel like … Continue reading 163. An exercise in humility part 2

161. Kinks, Fetishes, and D/s

This past week I had someone ask me some questions about fetishes and it got me thinking quite a bit on the subject. This also seems to flow with some of the things I have written about over the past few days. While there are those in the lifestyle that would deny the sexual nature … Continue reading 161. Kinks, Fetishes, and D/s

116. Compatibility Concept: Giving and Receiving

I have written about this idea a lot in the past on my Blogger blog but I don't think I have made a post on it while here on WordPress. I know when it comes to courting in kink-related relationships a lot of people tend to look for kink-overlap as one of the more important … Continue reading 116. Compatibility Concept: Giving and Receiving