Month: May 2018

467. Q&A from Porn Girl

Porn Girl was kind enough to ask me some questions in the comments of my last post.  Here goes. 1) When was the last time you “made love”, if ever? Sometime in the fall of 2012.  It was before T had hip surgery.  We were intimate one more time after that where she gave me … Continue reading 467. Q&A from Porn Girl

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466. A Personal Update and A Request

I know that I haven't posted much lately.  Things are going pretty well.  Most of what I blog about is inspired by conversations and interactions with others.  I had a lull of that for a few weeks and so there really wasn't a lot on my mind to write about.  After about three weeks of … Continue reading 466. A Personal Update and A Request

464. There’s a First Time for Everything (2018)

I try to be even-keeled in my presence on the blogosphere.  While I will rant now and then and express frustration, I generally don't get into beef in blog comments. Over the years I've been insulted or criticized countless times.  I have always found some way to either try to tactfully defuse the situation or … Continue reading 464. There’s a First Time for Everything (2018)

463. My Understanding of Domspace and Dominant Mental Space

For those of you who have been reading for a while, you may remember that when I was writing my fs02 erotica I went through a process to try to understand how things work within the mind of a sadist.  Since then, I have evolved my theory based upon discussions with dominants and wanted to … Continue reading 463. My Understanding of Domspace and Dominant Mental Space

462. Thoughts on Appearances

One of the more individual views that people in D/s have is how the dynamics of their relationship appear to outsiders.  Some have a group of kink-aware friends they keep separate from their vanilla friends.  Some have a few trusted confidants they share their lifestyle with.  Some keep it a secret from everyone. In my … Continue reading 462. Thoughts on Appearances

460. Thoughts on Communication Struggles and Submissive Guilt

The blogosphere is littered with accounts of subs talking about struggling to communicate their needs and desires.  This is especially true when they hit a state of frenzy, and it is often the reason that they reached frenzy in the first place. There are various reasons why people do not communicate what they need.  A … Continue reading 460. Thoughts on Communication Struggles and Submissive Guilt