I know that this is a repeat topic for me, but a number of Dommes I know have been blogging over entitlement in the past week and I thought it would be a good time to write about this again as it sort of follows suit. I find entitlement absolutely fascinating because it is not … Continue reading 384. Evolving Entitlement: Dismissive Attitude
It was roughly seven years ago that Lady Grey at Woman in Control made a post called "The Big Takeaway." Unfortunately this post was lost when she deleted a number of her early posts but some conversations that I have had recently with some newer Dommes got me thinking about it once again and I … Continue reading 375. Thoughts on “The Big Takeaway”
So... I got invited to a kik group and after 5 days I feel the need to make another public service announcement. Dominate. Verb. Def: have a commanding influence on; exercise control over. Example Usage: I dominate. She dominated. They will dominate. Corresponding Adjective: Dominant Corresponding Noun: Dominance Corresponding Substantive Noun/Pronoun(s): Dominant, Dom, Domme I don't … Continue reading 352. Dominate PSA 2018 Edition
I have a friend that I met on kik a while back that I think is absolutely fascinating. She is 2nd generation BDSM and was indoctrinated into the principles of the lifestyle in her mid-teens. I don't plan on getting into any sort of moral debate or commentary about that. BDSM was presented in a … Continue reading 345. Born from Denial?
My last two posts, A Pragmatic View from a single male submissive and Small Doubts seem to have gotten a bit of discussion going both in comments and via private contact. A couple of discussions today found me wanting to elaborate more upon this and how it affects things in the D/s world in general. … Continue reading 286. She Has the Power to Create and Reshape Reality
Over the years I have often heard the phrase "submission is a gift," usually accompanied by a statement about how it should be "given freely." The idea that submission carries with it worth and is something special is very romantic. I consider this a noble sentiment that would hold true in a perfect world. However, … Continue reading 273. Thoughts on “submission as a gift” and leverage
As there are fewer available Dommes than available male subs, opportunities are often dependent upon newer Dommes entering the lifestyle. This may be a single woman looking for the first time or a woman in a long-term relationship that has decided to enter the role, often at the behest of their significant other with submissive … Continue reading 159. Thoughts on developing dominance
I've been feeling stretched too thin lately and it is a feeling I haven't felt in a very long time. Emotions pulled around with hope in tow but uneasy and exhausted at the same time. I'm going to try to write this post and I'm hoping my brain allows it to be coherent. I have … Continue reading 59. Thoughts on Submissive Behavior and Control