100. The 30 Days are over

Well, 30 days of kink went out with a topic I didn't really care to do: Write or create a list of whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want. I sort of defeated the purpose of the prompts by finishing all of them and scheduled them for future posting.  Now that all 59 posts have been …

99. 30 Days of submission: Day 30

Is your need to submit being met?  No.  It used to be, but not currently. If not, or if your situation changed, do you think that you could continue in your life and still be happy/content if you were never able to express your submission in the way that feels best to you again?  I …

96. 30 Days of submission: Day 29

Is pain or humiliation (spankings for example) a part of your submission?  Both pain and humiliation play a large role in my subspace. What is your relationship to it?  Do you embrace it as a part of your submission, tolerate it as necessary or have some other type of relationship with it? This is rather …

95. 30 Days of Kink: Day 29

Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)?  Umm, not really.  Generally speaking I have had pronouns that have become default.  K used to call me pet or sissy slave.  F used to call me pet or slave.  T has called me pet but generally uses slut …

94. 30 Days of submission: Day 28

Has your submission ever let you down?  Yes.  There have been a time or two where I was unable to get over a mental hurdle and be what she wanted me to be.  This happened when I had hard limits in place but having them made me feel inadequate as a sub.  I would eventually …

93. 30 Days of Kink: Day 28

How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you? Does naked count as dressing for kink? To be honest, I don't dress any differently unless it is something that is requested of me.  As much as I can appreciate fetish attire (and I find a lot of it sexy), …

91. 30 Days of submission: Day 27

Do you have submissive desires or fantasies that you have yet to be able to explore?  Two of them exist as fantasies.  The lesbian fantasy where I am displaced as the lover by another woman and the fantasy of extended chastity.  I have done nearly everything else I had ever wanted to do. Do some …

90. 30 Days of Kink: Day 27

Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how? Hooray for vague.  Yes and no? Being fairly well-read and having seen a lot of movies and television comes in handy. Having dexterous musician hands helps with... things. I generally keep my interests compartmentalized and separate.  When I feel submissive …

86. 30 Days of submission: Day 26

What are the qualities you seek in a dominant partner and why?  This topic just came up on 30 Days of Kink so I'd rather not expand too much on it.  Mostly I seek Dommes that would be willing to consider me.  This usually reflects on them being caring, loving, loyal, and accepting.  While there …

85. 30 Days of Kink: Day 26

What’s your opinion on online BDSM play? Or online D/s Relationships? Having spent a lot of time separated from my Dommes I try not to look down on relationships that use a heavy amount of phone, skype, chat, and the like.  I think that online serves as a good starting point for getting to know …