Author: furcissy

483. Blindness

For as many times as people have told me that I am an insightful person, there are many ways where I am blind. Much of this blindness is self-inflicted.  I can remember back to my early teens thinking that life would happen for me like it did for others.  I would think a girl is … Continue reading 483. Blindness

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482. Spiraling

Very recently I hurt someone dear to me.  Badly.  Life-changing bad.  A betrayal of all that I value the most.  It's something I can't undo. It was a little over a month ago that I made some choices.  It was only recently that I faced those choices and accepted the responsibility for them.  The end … Continue reading 482. Spiraling

480. The Cycle Loop of Feeding Dominance and submission

Lately a topic has come to my attention that I find rather interesting.  I know that this is something I have written about in the past but since it is fresh on my mind I will revisit it. It is common knowledge that subs will undergo cravings.  Unless they are "fed," they will slowly slide … Continue reading 480. The Cycle Loop of Feeding Dominance and submission

479. The Complicated Gray Area of Emotional Masochism

This post is a bit of a follow up to my last post, #478. While I haven't been keeping up on blog reading like I historically have, I have noticed that a number of bloggers have been tackling the topic of emotional masochism (and often back-linking to me, which makes me happy).   I see this … Continue reading 479. The Complicated Gray Area of Emotional Masochism

477. Thoughts about my Blog and meeting people

I have had something repeat at the munches that I have attended, and that is having attention called to my blog (it is linked from my fetlife profile).  For some reason this always causes an immediate bout of blushing and shyness and I am terrified to talk about it.  This is something I have been … Continue reading 477. Thoughts about my Blog and meeting people

475. 2-Year Blog Anniversary on Wordpress

Today was my 2-year anniversary here on WordPress. I just wanted to say thank you to the people who take the time to read, like, and comment here. I'm on a small hiatus from posting, but I'm sure that having something worth writing about will manage to come up sooner rather than later. Take care.

474. Thoughts on the Psychology of Dynamics

One of the things that impresses me the most is when a dominant maintains an environment full of dynamics that constantly serve as fuel for their dominance and the sub's submission.  This takes quite a bit of work to create such an environment and a continuous effort to keep it rolling.  To the dominants that … Continue reading 474. Thoughts on the Psychology of Dynamics